"it's just that he is able to "see" what many miss...." Oh, please, Sylvia!! DON'T feed his bloated ego!!!
He declared my enjoyment of "Moby Dick" to be: "I'm calling your bluff on that one...." based EXCLUSIVELY on HIS reaction to the book: "I suffered through that book one time, hoping it would get better. It never did...."
Which I believe is an excellent example of "projection and displacement", in psychological terms... In other words, he decided that MY reality COULD NOT BE ANY DIFFERENT THAN HIS: "I suffered through that book one time, hoping it would get better. It never did...."
That's a FLAMING psychological malfunction... [Not to mention, arrogantly egocentric...] So, yeah, maybe he SHOULD research psychology... Perhaps he could benefit from insights gained into HIS OWN behavior patterns...
Zid