All I know is that I was once as indoctrinated as you. Eventually I got over it, but if I could go back in time I would tell my younger self not to pass up any opportunities. Just be safe about it.
Sex before marriage. feeling guilty
by frigginconfused 77 Replies latest jw friends
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tec
I just wanted to add that in the few experiences (partners) I had of sex before marriage (except with my husband), someone got hurt. Either I got hurt or he did. These were relationships though, and not just casual sex - although from what I saw of casual sex in friends, they always got hurt too - mainly because expectations were HIGHER than mere casual sex.
This isn't meant as a judgment on or against anyone; I'm just sharing my experience, which is as much as I can contribute to this thread. So I am glad to see that you consider the emotional ties as well as just the physical.
Tammy
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wasblind
I gotta LOL on that pic Alice
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Joey Jo-Jo
For arguments sake and this might be a dull question but is there any biblical evidence suggesting that sex should be after marriage?
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streets76
friggin, I say this meaning nothing personal (as I don't know you personally), but having sex with this girl (or any girl) might just be the slap right upside your stupid head that you've been needing.
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streets76
... and if you've never had head before, well, hold on to your hat, boy, hold on to your hat.
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Darth plaugeis
ALICE!!!!LOL
Jesus is going to kill him for having sex even thou..... Jesus BANGED MARY M.!!!!!!!...but he was perfect so it's OK.
Oh ya I went there..... a little Old School on Your ASSES!!!
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frigginconfused
tec Thanks. You always temper logic with love.
WTWizard The God you talk about has been fabricated by the church. The real God is always just, fair, loving, and mercifull. Ex JW's let the borg take God away from them. Not me. Its my religion they can go to hell.
streets76 Whats the deal dude? Are you ok? Do you need to vent about something? Take the time to read everything I wrote. You show me where my reasoning is off? Im always open to change. Im past hooking up. I want something real. I want to do everything right by all involved. Its called love. Im not some ignorant virgin. I was in the military for 10 years. We like our women!
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letsslatejws
I had sex before I was married & was sooo guilty that because of the June 15th 1991 WT article me & my newish wed husband went to the elders to confess. (Thats what the article told us to do so being very conscious of our spiritual need we told them and got silently reproved)... I was totally screwed up for a good ten years believing I had sinned against the holy spirity. It took away my love of life and totally consumed everything I said and did because of the inner hate that I felt of myself. Now I look back and cant believe that I let an organisation allow me to feel so bad about myself. I simply cant believe how screwed up I was and how it took so long for me to come to terms with the situation....
Another 10 years have passed now and I escape JWdom only last year 2009. I cant believe how free I feel from all of their teachings.... I can only tell you to read the book Crisis of Conscience by Ray Franz and to totally free yourself from all the indocrination cult rubbish that has filled your mind. It suffocated me for so many years & now once I learnt it was wrong I was immediately liberated and feel like I never have.
Me & my hubby are still together happily married & both out of JWdom. YAY
If this girl is your love of your life & you share everything. Know what each other are thinking & cant bare to be apart then this girl is the one for you. Set up house & home and become totally free together....
I wish you all the best for the future and truly hope you get the CULT teachings out of your head fast.... xxxx
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Highlander
"if they can control your pecker, they can control your mind"
I'm stealing this quote. You're awesome scully.
