Thanks for the advice/ideas guys. I have said that I don't want to go. She doesn't like the meetings either. Isn't that crazy? But she says she feels better after she goes.
To a point I can understand it. She spends her entire day with a 6 month old and a 5 year old. She is a VERY social person. So when she gets to the hall and is around a lot of people, it makes her feel good. She doesn't listen to a word they say at the meetings. But she feels comfort in the structure of it and the people that are there.
But she has never had anything bad happen to her in the organization. While I don't wish anything bad on her, I almost wish she could see what CAN happen when people have the amount of control and power as they do in the organization. Maybe then she'd wake up? Short of something drastic happening, I can't see her changing. She's comfortable being a JW. She doesn't follow it to a "T". She watches R rated movies, will go to the strip club, drinks, and is pretty much up for anything. She is able to justify all her actions. But she WILL NOT stop being a JW.