Sleaze Update... (page 14)

White Dove

Okay,

I'm game. Let's have some fun.

We discussed Starbuck's v. The Park face to face. I could read his selfishness when he stubbornly stuck to his preference. His comments about it in a discussion before face to face didn't make sense or jibe with mine.

It was as if he was having a conversation with himself, almost. Every time I said how it's too hot outside right now, he would repeat and stress that the HEAT didn't bother him, as if he was trying to get me to realize something and that I was slow to pick it up.

It was weird. It was as if I didn't say anything. I was talking about the temperature, but he wasn't. When Wing Commander mentioned that it might not be about the temperature, it all began to make perfect sense from that angle.

I don't think or talk like that or have that kind of thing as a goal just after meeting someone, so how was I to know what he really meant.

Now, looking back at what another poster said about that other kind of heat in a park with about 12 different women, and maybe another one saying that a park is a good way of quickly going from innocent first date to a bed in the same day, I don't think my perception of what he REALLY wanted was too far off.

I'm certainly not going to a second location on a first or even a 10th date.

You may scoff. You may laugh. But, I AM a lady and I DO know that he was no gentleman.

PS He's a regular customer at TB, where I work everyday, and he stuck a note on my car window with his e-mail address and invited me to e-mail him. I did.

It's been over a week since the last contact. Moved on right away.

I am, actually, getting extremely bored with this thread. But, I've got this urge to answer all the comments as they either praise me or condemn me. Ugh. Enough, already!

SixofNine

It amazes me that when folks tell something here and they don't get the response they want they get upset.

Well White Dove got a lot of really stupid, really shitty responses. I don't give a shit and they upset me, just because so many of the responses are so damn stupid and purposely ignore the dude's actual words.

mrsjones5

White Dove you have a pm

FlyingHighNow

Six, did I ever tell you? You can be pretty cool.

White Dove

Hey, Sixy, how are YOU doing, today? *wink wink wink wink*

Hey, SixofNine, how are you doing, today? Good. See ya later.

Bet the naysayers can't even figure out which one is a "come hither" question.

You are too cool cool cool, Sixy! From the bottom of my heart, I salute you!

I'd bet those guys would defend Austin Powers, "Yeah, baby! But keep in mind that I ONLY want to feed my duck."

He wouldn't mean anything other than his duck liked the park and wanted some bread crumbs. Oh, nooooo.

cognizant dissident

Perhaps you are trying to help and be supportive by pointing out what your perceive to be immature behavior, and I can respect that. But my angry outspoken online persona wants to tell you to shut the eff up and go find someone else to pick on, talk about drama queens, sheesh, you just can't let it go can you? You just keep stirring that pot,...............cause thats what DQs do best ...........jackass

A Sphere:

I wasn't trying to help or be supportive. White Dove put out a topic for discussion. People discussed and offered their different perspectives, as I did. If you read through the original thread and this thread carefully you will see that White Dove herself never considered the man meant anything but "heat" until Wing Commander suggested it and then she changed her perspective to fit what he said. It suddenly went from he might have meant something different to he definitely did mean something different and any who disagreed with the new take and the direction it was taking, were indeed jumped all over.

If you read carefully you will also note that I never did actually call White Dove a drama queen. I simply commented on what I saw as a dramatic escalation of events with no evidence. However, if the shoe fits.... Surely, you don't all thinks it offensive for someone to insinuate that someone's though processes might be somewhat overly dramatic and surely you don't claim that's the same thing as calling them a drama queen? Because White Dove her self assures us that its not when she says that telling the man his behaviour was a bit sleazy and unethical is not at all the same thing as calling him sleazy and unethical. You cannot have it both ways.

I realize you are a personal friend, but in the interests of fairness, please use the same measuring stick for behaviour for all posters on this topic. No special pleading allowed. Because the rest of us don't know White Dove personally. We only know her by the words she posts and puts out there in public for public discussion. If she only wants people to comment on her threads who agree with her and validate her perspectives as they change before our eyes, then she should put a disclaimer in her first post telling everyone that. Good luck with that! Or perhaps she should limit her tales to her personal friends and family off line. If she can't take the "heat" of someone disagreeing with her then perhaps she should stay out of the public forum. And let me make myself very clear, by "heat", I am not sexually propositioning either of you!

I find it sad that some view people disagreeing with them as "picking" on them. I have no intent to pick on anyone. It's ironic you don't consider calling me a jackass and telling me to go eff myself picking on me. I see it simply as the double standard, two different measuring sticks, and the last resort of someone who doesn't actually have a valid argument to any of the valid and logical points I raised.

I'm sorry that you and White Dove have two measuring sticks and two different personalities, an angry one for on line to swear and name call people you don't know and a nice quiet one for offline and people you do know. Perhaps you and White Dove can get a two for one discount on some therapy for that.

Cog