I see that the Bible has a clear message throughout. The OT shows God's wrath towards the wicked, but also His desire for people to come to Him. The NT shows God's love for people, and yet His wrath towards those that supress truth. Revelation contains much of the same sort of wrath that God showed towards the godless in the OT. The angels pour out vials of God's anger on those that will not serve Him.
BD, c'mon, dude. You didn't really address my earlier questions about the conficts in principle. Here's what you said:
Every seeming contradiction can be answered in a reasonable way (at least the ones that I have researched).
You know that isn't news to any of us. JWs taught the same thing. But let's just take one of those contradictions: why did God need to "show his wrath" by slaughtering infants and children in the OT? How wicked were they? If the men who wrote the bible said that he violently raped a baby to show the pagans who he was, would also be righteous since he's God? Any conduct attributed to God is perfect and just, right? Where do you draw the line in rationalizing away horrific acts with "his ways are higher than our ways"? Don't you think Muslims have some similar expression about Allah to rationalize his atrocities?
There's a reason that some of us on here give Christians such a hard time: Because we see similarities between JWs and those who believe the Bible should be taken literally as a book to live THROUGH.
Think about the fact that you'd like to expose fallacious thinking of a JW (other than your wife). You realize that at one time you saw things the way they do but now you want to help them recognize the lunacy of it. And you can tell when they avoid facing the issues that present a cognitive dissonance. They can rationalize away failed prophecy, changing doctrine, and the unloving act of shunning just as easily as you rationalize away a loving god who authorizes rape.