Hey fellas, as you got older, into your early 30s, did you start finding women between their late 30s and late 40s attractive?

by miseryloveselders 41 Replies latest jw friends

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  miseryloveselders

  Somedays my dad would look at what I still call an older woman, and he'd call her attractive. I'd look at him like dude your nuts. I'm thinking just cuz your older doesn't mean its wrong to find younger women attractive. He explained to me that as we get older, we find those in our age bracket and older, to be appealing. I thought he was nuts. I was in my early twenties then, but now I think I see what he's talking about. Lately I've been scoping some of these late thirtyish, and mid fortyish women, and being honest with you, there's quite a few of them that could get it. One of our account managers just made the rounds on our floor. I've never seen this woman before although I've conversed with her over the phone and via email. Today she came through with whom I'm assuming were a couple of her administrative assistants, and I would totally spend money on her and pamper her. She's gotta be in her mid 40s, but wow. She was dressed in all black, which is my favorite anyway, and I loved the way the other two assistants followed her like they knew what was expected of them. So seductive. She has an elegance that younger women take years to learn, and it was so fascinating watching her. There's quite a few in this building that make me pause for a moment.

  I've always liked brunettes, and I find that the older I get the more attractive I find the older ones. I'm talking women like Melinda Clarke, or Jane Badler. Eliza Dushku although younger, appears older, but she's gorgous. Or when it comes to black women, Toni Braxton who is in her mid forties is serious business. I'd love to get on bended knee for her.

  But fellas, especially you older dudes, did this happen to you as you got older? Did older women all of sudden start looking very good all of a sudden once you reached your 30's? I'm not talking your "hot for teacher"moments either. We've all had the occasional teacher or substitute who we wanted extra attention from. I'm talking once you hit maturity as a man in your thirties, older women became gorgous.

  On another note, did younger women all of a sudden become immature and irritating to some degree?
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  sabastious

  I have always found older women attractive for some reason.

  -Sab
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  sabastious

  On another note, did younger women all of a sudden become immature and irritating to some degree?

  YES! It's insane actually. Did younger women just get more stupid or did I get smarter?

  -Sab
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  Soldier77

  Yes, the older and further into my thirties I get, the more I'm noticing I notice older women. I like the maturity, experience and surety that comes with that package. Very appealing.
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  GrandmaJones

  Ha, ha,ha, ha....(grins) how the heck would you stay married if not?

  I look hot to my hubby even at my age, and he's a pretty handsome rooster himself. I will never see anything but the young man I married in his face. He says that about me too. And I believe him. He thinks young women are pretty, but airheads. Also, he no longer likes women to be too thin. He has decided he likes them with plenty of meat.

  Makes me laugh.
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  oldlightnewshite

  I fancy older women, and always have. What's wrong with that? I think as long as they look after themselves and are presentable, what's not to like? I wonder what I'll be like when I hit 60.... probably go for the 50-and-unders...
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  miseryloveselders

  Ha, ha,ha, ha....(grins) how the heck would you stay married if not?

  I look hot to my hubby even at my age, and he's a pretty handsome rooster himself. I will never see anything but the young man I married in his face. He says that about me too. And I believe him. He thinks young women are pretty, but airheads. Also, he no longer likes women to be too thin. He has decided he likes them with plenty of meat.

  Makes me laugh.

  Grandma you mentioned something else I meant to state in the opening post. I've NEVER been a chubby chaser, but some of these healthy older women look good with that extra weight on them. I'm not talking obese, but a good 15-20 Lbs overweight is not a bad thing to look at depending on how she dresses. I can't believe I'm saying this, but the older I get, I don't mind the extra weight on older gals. They look good.
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  WTWizard

  Some people do in fact find older women attractive. Some usually find younger people attractive (in the 18-25 group), but might find specific older people attractive for whatever reason. And I don't see anything wrong with that--I think they can take the (Age/2)+7 rule and shove it.

  Unless, that is, you are dealing with people who are primarily attracted to small children, and double so those who get their kicks out of ruining those children's lives. If that is the case, such people need drastic action taken to protect the children. In fact, I think those who can be proven to get their kicks out of ruining children's lives should rot in jail, or get the death penalty.
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  BluesBrother

  as you got older, into your early 30s

  You what?? if that is "older" I am one step from the grave !....yes well maybe ....?

  But it is a fact of life, the older you get, you can appreciate older women
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  Violia

  Hey, I just turned 60 and I am fairly easy on the eyes myself. Age is a state of mind.