But fellas, especially you older dudes, did this happen to you as you got older? Did older women all of sudden start looking very good all of a sudden once you reached your 30's? I'm not talking your "hot for teacher"moments either. We've all had the occasional teacher or substitute who we wanted extra attention from. I'm talking once you hit maturity as a man in your thirties, older women became gorgous.
I, like others here, have found myself being attracted to ladies in most age groups for as long as I can remember. It didn't matter to me whether they were younger or older. I try to differentiate between what I find attractive and what a realistic option is, though. I've had many worries and doubts as to my own maturity level over the years so I don't go out of my way to ham it up with older ladies (though it happens sometimes). Even with ladies in my own peer group, I have doubts and worries. As attractive as young girls can be, the stigma of paedolphlia forces me to avoid them as much as I can.
On another note, did younger women all of a sudden become immature and irritating to some degree?
In the past few years, I have found that to be true of myself as well. If a female is younger than mid twenties, It's hard for me not to think of her as the proverbial airhead. There are some younger ones who's relative maturity level I have found to be impressive but on a deeper level, inexperience is inexperience and nothing changes that except the passage of time. I don't have the heart to involve myself in a commited relationship with a girl so young (early twenties) because such a girl needs to live a little and figure life out for herself and a marriage would strip her of that opportunity. That relates to another bit of hypocrisy I bitterly disagree with when it comes to JW's. The WTS continually preaches against marrying in the "bloom of youth" but the vast majority of young JW's do it anyway and they thus rob themselves of so much in life. They destroy themselves, in a way...
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