Is the teaching of religion really a form of child abuse?

by Snoozy 25 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • THE GLADIATOR
    THE GLADIATOR

    All children will encounter the idea of God as they grow up. It runs through most classical literature and has shaped history. It is part of children's education to inform them of religion. I think that encouraging children to allow for the possibility that there to more in heaven and earth than can be presently known is a healthy outlook.

    To allow room for the idea that there may be something greater than themselves that permeates the universe is sensible. A balanced view is likely to help children to feel secure. If they want to call that possibility God then that is as good a name as any. As they grow they will decide for themselves.

    Indoctrination into a cult that causes children to live in fear is a very different matter.

  • PSacramento
    PSacramento

    I think that certain forms of religious taught can indeed be harmful to a child - God will kill you and throw you into a sea of fire if you don't praise him, is an example.

    While others can make a child's sense of self-worth increase - God loves you because you are you and you are God's child, he loves you unconditionally and we treat other people nice because not only is it the right thing to do, but because we are all God's children and he loves us All so we should love each other too since we are all family.

    I don't see how a religion based on love is harmful, just as I don't doubt that a religion based on hate and fear IS VERY harmful.

  • sabastious
    sabastious

    BTS, Religion is not child abuse.

    That's like saying roast beef is a murderer since it can be choked on. Who cares what Dawkins has to say on the matter, he is a scientist first, philosophy is a hobby for him, it would seem.

    -Sab

  • Snoozy
    Snoozy

    I am trying to picture what kind of world it would be if all people thought this was the only life they would have?

    If the children are not to believe in a god or that this is the only life they will definately have?

    Would the world become a free for all..the strongest wins..consciense thrown to the wind?

    Some interesting points are stated here but still to me a world without religion would just be scary!

    Kids would adopt the attitude that it is only me that matters in this world.

    Would people still care about one another if there were no religion to teach kindness and forgiveness and concern for our fellow man?

    how can you explain to a child that it would be wrong to hurt another..tell them it just isn't right?

    Snoozy

  • Giordano
    Giordano

    AS to the original question........ If it results in a dangerous lack of proper medical treatment then ........ definitely. Just as the courts take child abuse seriously they also try to 'rescue' children who are not receiving life saving treatment. The religiously based polygamists who find it acceptable to marry 13 year old girls is another form of child abuse/rape. Some religions isolate children from school activities and their fellow students, I think that’s also a form of, if not abuse, at least a lack of consideration for a child's need for social activity.

    I don't think indoctrinating a child into anything is healthy. Does religion benefit a child? I don't see how, at least not until a child is old enough to at least be exposed to a variety of opinions. I would be more apt to encourage my child to join the Boy Scouts or Girl Scouts, that should be the most religion he got until his teen years. I would encourage my child to get involved with one's peers in after school activities. Play a team sport. Find a personal hobby.

    As to the other discussion Religion and Happiness

    http://www.psychwww.com/psyrelig/happy.htm

    " religious involvement is associated with modest increases in happiness.

    Psychologists tend to focus on three kinds of explanations:

    1. Social Support. Religious involvement is a way of gaining social support. People in general are happier when they are around others who are supportive..............Related to this is the idea that religion helps people feel closer to God, who might also be viewed as personally supportive.

    2. Firm Beliefs. Happiness and life satisfaction increase when we have a sense of where we are going and what is important in life. This might also be related to the rise of 'strict' or conservative churches, which offer more certitude than do more liberal churches.

    3. Religion Itself. Religious experiences can be very positive. They offer a person a feeling of being in contact with God (also known as "transcendence") and contact with others.

    All of this leads to the interesting question of whether there are occasions where religion is associated with less happiness.

    ..............Another way that religion may be associated with decreases in happiness is when religion is involved in religious conflicts. When family members or friends experience conflict over religion, the wounds can be deep and long-lasting. In such cases, religion's effect on happiness is mixed. On the one hand, it causes conflict and dissension with loved ones, while on the other hand, it may generate a sense of certainty and yield associations with other like-minded people. (Nielsen, 1998).

  • designs
    designs

    'Now I lay me down to sleep, if I should die before I wake I pray the Lord my soul to take'.......

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