Well I went to my old congregation a few months back and some people smiled, but the Elders put this hard line stance ( my old congregation is very "old school" ) . Since I'm a social pariah ( my ex fiancee really did a number on my reputation ), I was at one point one of the most popular young brothers in Los Angeles. If I do come back I would just come back to tell my side of the story and clear my name ( kind of like that "show Burn Notice").
My ex-fiancee is a another story of my life I will post later.