Well, I'm going to go ahead and ring in here. Perhaps we can get this thing to flame before Julie even posts, if indeed she does, here!
I was never a JW as an adult. My own personal experiences with the WTS were as a child. My parents were never very "good" JWs, so they were probably much more liberal than most. We became "officially" inactive when I was 10(My Father later returned after I became an adult). So, I sort of lived half in and half out. I have a very large extended family on both sides. My Mother's side has most of the JW relatives, and because of my family leaving, we have been shunned for over 20 years. Anyway, my point is, NO,I cannot relate to many of the experiences posted here, personally. However, I can empathize and I can also have, and express, an opinion on various topics I read about here. I DARE anyone to tell me I'm not allowed .
I suppose what I am trying to convey is that I have read on several occasions people posting to Julie "you will NEVER understand because you are NOT one of us"! Well, perhaps that is true to a certain extent. That goes for many of us here. We have not had all of the same exact experiences. Some are Non-JW's married to JWs. Some are studying or have studied. Not everyone was born, raised, and lived as an adult in the Org. I think we all have our own vantage point from which we see the same mountain. And quite frankly, I don't like to see anyone being told "YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO JOIN OUR EXCLUSIVE LITTLE CLUB". It has the same stench the cliques down at the KH have(which, of course, I have no personal experience of KH cliques. I only have the stories my Mom tells me to go by).
Okay, I'm done.
Andee
You can take a whore to water, but you can't make her think-Dorothy Parker