I need some lovin tonight. Some tender loving affection and care, ya know? (page 4)

SweetBabyCheezits

I'm 2 people short of a threesome.

MF, I appreciated this. That's a damn good quality one-liner. I clucked out loud.

Mis... What part of "its being married to the right person" didnt you get??? Dating a gal out of sympathy is bad... Marrying for lack of other perceived options is just plain stupid. I married for love and am still miserable 90% of the time... Marry your best friend. Please. Trust me. Its all that counts... Even when the sex is good its only a few hours... I CRAVE a woman who is my equal, my partner, my friend. Hell with all else...

When i find that gal, the partner, the friend, the equal, im holding on and never letting go. I will never settle for less than that again

Morbidzbaby

*Sigh* I can't remember the last time I had real romance...hey wait...NEVER!!

A snuggle, some kind words, affection, touches and caresses that don't have to lead anywhere...just being together and enjoying each other's company. I know I WILL have that, but damn if I don't wish I had it now!

miseryloveselders

Mis... What part of "its being married to the right person" didnt you get??? Dating a gal out of sympathy is bad... Marrying for lack of other perceived options is just plain stupid. I married for love and am still miserable 90% of the time... Marry your best friend. Please. Trust me. Its all that counts... Even when the sex is good its only a few hours... I CRAVE a woman who is my equal, my partner, my friend. Hell with all else...

When i find that gal, the partner, the friend, the equal, im holding on and never letting go. I will never settle for less than that again

That sounds strange to me though bruh. Its hard being attracted someone you've been friends with. I remember reading Young People Ask, and even my own father saying that platonic relationships with women are impossible. I'm thinking though of female friends that I don't think are unattractive, but at the same time any thoughts of a romance or sexual activity would be tantamount to incest, at least from my perspective anyway. Is it possible to be romantically involved with a woman that you're friends with?

I will say I like the equal, partner end of things. I'd even venture to say I'd date a woman who brings more to the table financially or socially than myself. I like professional, intelligent women man. Confidence and intelligence is just fascinating in a woman. I don't mind closing my mouth and opening my ears to what she has to say.

mrsjones5

I'm in a bad mood because lately I haven't been sleeping well - the medication for my stomach problems makes me have erotic dreams at night.

I just got back and I find out that erotic dreams makes Sylvia grumpy. Learn something new every day.

Violia

Here you go MLE, this ought to put us all in the mood.

palmtree67

Misery,

I can't really cyber-pamper you, but I will tell you this:

I really like you. I'm glad you post here. I only wish peace and good things for you.

And boobies:

Hee hee hee

Palm

elderelite

Trust me mis.... Best friend. When u free your mind from wt boundries its all clear... Oh yes it possible to have sexual tension with someone you are "friends" with :-D

It may take some practice to adjust to it in your mind but its possible. Its the best. You can flow from friend to lover without effort... Friend is so so so important... Again, as a married man, i CRAVE the attention that a woman who cares gives... Not the "sex"... The attention, the "TLC" you talked about... Thats comes from friend not lover. Its what someone just posted and called the affection that dosent have to lead anywhere. I was lamenting just the other day my wife wont cuddle before i go to work... Its important to me. It helps me feel loved and connected before i leave the house... Not sex... Cuddle...

She feels its a burden.

I want a friend, a partner am equal. A gal who sighs amd melts against me when i want cuddle time... A gal who likes my stare from accross the room... One who challenges me to be better than i am but accepts my short commings.. I could go on and on... But i think i summerized reasonably well...

Look for a friend

mrsjones5

Is it possible to be romantically involved with a woman that you're friends with?

Yes it is possible. I can honestly say that my husband considers me to be his best friend and I feel the same about him. We liked each other first and still to this day like each other. The other stuff (love and sex) is the icing to the cake.

DesirousOfChange

And boobies:

how come I never saw the BOOBIE "emotion"??? as an option???

I need some lovin tonight. Some tender loving affection and care, ya know?

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