You did right to threaten to sue them personally. Now call an attorney. They will hear it and back off fast. Also compile a listen of addresses and emails for every JW you know of, your local most talkative beaticians and barbers etc.
It would be a most "loving arrangement" indeed for you to inform people of the real truth so that you own good name is vindicated and documented information can do it. They will back off one way or get backed off another:
SHOCKING FACTS FOR THE CONGREGATION & PUBLIC: The Watchtower Society (WTS) leaders over Jehovah's Witnesses (JWs) cover up cases of child molestation ( http://www.silentlambs.org), allow pedophiles to go door-to-door. They say God opposes the UN but until exposed in 1991-2001 were a formal UN associate not just to use the UN's library as proved if you read the Nov 22, 1998 Awake magazine closely. ( http://www.freeminds.org) 1 Cor 6:1 only says judge "trivial" things as in business, James 2:4-13 calls judging harmful, & Paul says the "majority" (2 Cor 2:6) followed his advice to shun a wrongdoer, meaning a minority chose not to & yet he nowhere condemns them, yet the WTS has formal Judicial Committes destroying families via numerous formal renderings of disfellowshipment (shunning).
Acts 15:20 says abstain from blood but 1 Sam 14:32-5 says Saul's army ate unBLED meat to not starve & no verses show God not forgiving them. Christ says God also forgave David's eating temple holy bread & that God wants Mercy Not Sacrifice. (Mt 12) The May 22, 1994 Awake tells of 26 JW kids who died without transfusions, & by common sense in massive bleeding as in car wrecks blood expanders won't save lives http://www.ajwrb.org. An estimated 3 JWs die daily earthwide from the WTS’s unscriptural policy! (Blood On The Altar by David Reed) Why should our kids, grandkids, other family be endangered or destroyed? JWs can form independent groups independent from the WTS but united by LOVE ( http://groups.yahoo.com/group/jahchristian), join another group or decrease donations & other support. Please make & use copies of this for years ahead. It was written out of love for our JW families & friends as well as those of the general public.