What qualities do men look for in a woman?

by WildHorses 98 Replies latest social relationships

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    Refiners, have you been spying on me? I am as flawed as they come.

    I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.
  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    i dont think your flawed lilacs.
    I think you are a beautiful person.
    Perhaps the most beautiful person on this board.
    (next to xena that is)

    "Sense of humour" ...every body ALWAYS puts that dont they?
    What does it mean? "sense of humour".

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    What a sense of humor means to me is, they have to be able to make me laugh. I love to laugh! Makes me feel so good, inside and out.

    And thank you so much for the complement, refiners. It is truley appreciated.

    I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.
  • CoolBreeze
    CoolBreeze
    Have to agree with Lilacs here....what woman doesn't have "those" functioning parts?

    Ummm ... weeeellll ... you see there was this incident in New Orleans with a pre-op transvestite that prompted me to add items 5 and 6.

    After much consideration, I've decided that I'm looking for a woman who wants everything I have to offer, but who needs none of it.

    Ciao,
    Anton

    "Don't dream it, be it."
    Dr. Frankenfurter

  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    Yes. Women do like an upbeat, confident guy who can make them laugh.
    Perhaps this explains my lack of success with women. No sense of humour.Not upbeat enough.

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    They don't have to be confident. I will take care of that, as I love to compliment a guy and make him feel as if he is the only man alive.

    I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.
  • GoldDustWoman
    GoldDustWoman

    Gravedancer writes:

    Intelligence
    Me thinks you aren't telling the WHOLE truth there, Grave.

    Reliable sources confide a quality that is also nonnegotiable for you, in a woman, is the ability to make walls out of french toast.

    Andee

    You can take a whore to water, but you can't make her think-Dorothy Parker

  • Seeker
    Seeker

    Here is what I am looking for:

    Intelligence. No, really, intelligence to the nth-degree. I'll keep up, if need be. I want someone who can look at a commercial and tell me what's wrong with it. Someone who can hear a speech and noted the inconsistencies. Someone who will seek out in-depth reading material and can't wait to tell me what she's read.

    Humor. Funny, funny, funny. Must love to laugh, and make me laugh. Witty, insightful, loves word play.

    Loyal. Must be willing to go to the bitter end for a friend in need. Someone who will look out for my needs while I look out for hers.

    Sexual. Comfortable with their bodies and knows how hers works and will guide me in the best way to make love to her without hangups or shame.

    Independent. Someone who knows not to follow the crowd but can make decisions on their own merit even if it means everyone else is wrong and she is right.

    Mentally and emotionally stable. In touch with her past and understands why she acts the way she does. Has learned to overcome childhood patterns that are destructive.

    Everything else is negotiable, including all the usual silly reasons such as looks, financial status, and so on.

  • Seeker
    Seeker

    Hi Andee,

    The correct quote is: "You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think."

  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    Financial status will become a very important criteria once you get some wealth son.
    You get yourself married up with a woman whos got nothing (second time around)and it breaks up, your liable to find yourself scalped out of 30 years of hard earned wealth.

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