Do people generally like you?

by Terry 65 Replies latest jw friends

  • AGuest
    AGuest

    I like you, dear Terry (peace to you!). You do make folks think... and I LOVE to think. As for whether folks like ME, though... I would have to mimic almost everyone else here: if they're a decent, honest, straightup person (without no underhanded agenda), they not only tend to like me, but love me. If, however, they're full of it... they usually don't like me from day one - LOLOLOL! Those kind usually say something like, "There's something about you," or "I can't figure you out," or "You're hard to get to know" (that one came from a supervisor who I had a great rapport with, would do anything she instructed me to, until one day she asked me to forge a client's signature. Seriously?? Apparently, she thought that because I had said "yes" to everything up to that point (for say, 2 years), I would say yes, again. When I didn't and told her never to ask me anything like that again... well, "things" changed, of course. She literally became an enemy. I never ratted her out though but did avoid her. She became surly, though, and that's usually how it goes).

    I've never been concerned much with whether folks liked me or not, though - I can only be me and I do try to take stock frequently, as well as try to be kind and speak kindly. The main problem I've had is that I'm a bit of a loner and so some folks tend to feel "neglected" by me (I hate that they do, but I do the best I can toward them).

    As for others, I just remember what my Lord is recorded to have said:

    "Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for that is how their fathers treated the false prophets." Luke 6:26

    Since people didn't generally like him, either, and given what folks have posted here, I feel that I'm pretty good company.

    Again, peace to you!

    A slave of Christ (although, I KNOW some folks hate when I state THAT - LOLOLOL!),

    SA, who isn't necessarily "popular"...

  • moshe
    moshe

    We all love you J-On.

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    Yes, people generally like me when meeting me face to face.

  • TD
    TD

    My internet personae is cold and I struggle with it, but in real life I'm the type of person that raises baby birds that have fallen out of the nest (Literally!)

    I love people and they (Mostly) like me.

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    This board needs a "like" button.

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers
    I like you , Jamie.... that must make me decent - WAHOO!!!

    LOL...I like you too!

  • sooner7nc
    sooner7nc

    Most people love me in person.

  • tec
    tec
    The main problem I've had is that I'm a bit of a loner and so some folks tend to feel "neglected" by me (I hate that they do, but I do the best I can toward them).

    Same here. I can totally relate.

    I wrote a paragraph earlier in the thread trying to describe that, and deleted it because it was too verbose ;) Funny that you did it in one sentence and I couldn't do it at all.

    Tammy

  • Robdar
    Robdar

    I think I amuse some and annoy others on this forum. I am sensitive to others' pain but believe that everybody needs to eventually straighten their back and face their problems. It seems as if some posters need to be babied and sometimes I can empathize with them. Other times I have to fight a strong urge to tell them to quiet down and grow the hell up. Afterall, there is only so much whining a person should be subjected to by a total stranger.

    In r/l, most people tell me that they find me to be honest and trustworthy. Many people ask for my opinions.

    Throughout my life I've met many people who seem to be wounded psychologically and they tend to rely on me for moral support knowing I will not judge them or betray their confidences. I am an intent listener and can visualize what others are saying. Many people tell me their secrets but there are very few I will tell mine. Even then, I am selective about what I will tell them and prefer to keep my privacy.

    I have many acquaintances and a few friends but prefer the peace of nature and the company of animals over the company of most people.

  • VampireDCLXV
    VampireDCLXV

    At first blush, most ppl tend to think I'm charming and funny. As time goes on, I tend to make frequent social boo boos and commit the occasional social taboos because of my ADHD. I just don't have this mental/verbal "filter" like most "normal" human beings do, so I tend to be blunt at times. I don't intend to hurt ppl; it just happens sometimes. All-in-all, I wear my heart on my sleeve. Ppl who are intolerant, unforgiving and/or self righteous tend not to want to be around the likes me over the long term. That's about 9/10 JWs and just over half of the rest of humankind. I pay a heavy price for being "different", as do most sufferers of ADHD...

    V665V665

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