Rocky,
Good luck. I know how hard it is going to be on you. Early on, I didn't think my wife would stay, and the one thing that drove me crazy was thinking about the idea that they wouldn't ever let her talk to me again and she would eventually see me as the bad guy and not the one who rescued her. I don't envy what you will face eventually.
I am a Secular Humanist, but try to respect evryone's beliefs who are willing to give me the same courtesy. I am curious to know your religious background, but understand if you don't want to share that information.