viewing porn makes you demonised!
by highdose 77 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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mamalove
Personal opinion is that a small amount of people have to take porn viewing to a greater level to receive sexual excitement. After a while, men and women or gay porn isnt enough, and they may want to see disgusting things like children or animals. In that case, yes, I think it is absolutely devious and non-human. Does the WT get credit for coining that in their literature? No...
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Virgochik
I personally do not see anything funny about it. Sadly, right now it is wrecking my marriage and my husband and I are separated due to his obsession with porn. He is up late on the computer and up early on the computer. He joined online groups which leads to cybersex invitations, and he bought porn DVD's.
After awhile, it takes more and more shocking images to hold the person's interest. My husband has no interest in real sex. He can log in and be with a different fantasy person or several- every night.
A man at work got caught viewing porn on a company computer. He was warned. He kept doing it and is now about to be fired. I'm so not thinking this is to be taken lightly. It has ruined lots of marriages. It starts out as no big deal but then it takes over.
Guys, when you think it's just boys being boys, please consider the damage being done to families and devastated wives who have lost their husbands to this. To some women, it's nothing to joke around about.
Sorry to rant. It's just so raw right now for me.
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transhuman68
IMO porn can be an addiction, but it is like smoking, gambling or drinking- it's something you do if you have an addictive personality. Normally, a person looks at porn, jerks off, and is done: that's probably the norm for most teenagers. I think porn is pretty harmless- it won't change your sexual preferences, or make anyone more selfish than they already are. It's just media these days- like the pictures, movies and games that have swamped the market. Let's face it- you play a video game and kill a thousand bad guys, or watch porn and see a thousand people get shagged; then turn it off and eat dinner- what's changed? Nothing... apart from some time that has been killed.
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DaCheech
look at the statistics:
in the past when porn was not available.......... sexual crimes were high
now/and in countries where porn is easily available, sexual crimes are down.
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Robdar
DaCheech, I would love to look at those statistics. Do you have a source?
What about children and women who have been kidnapped and forced to participate in filmed sex acts?
I have seen some awful, awful, porn. Many of the women looked drugged and completely unaware of what all was being done to them. I remember the last porn I ever watched. I will never forget the eyes of the young oriental women who was aware of what was being done to her. Her eyes had a deep hatred of the men who were squirting their jiz all over her face. She was nothing more than an animal to those men. I still want to cry when I think about it. Porn is NOT harmless.
IMO, Anybody who views porn is supporting the abuse that is going on against women and children on a worldwide scale. Sure, it seems harmless and victimless while you're holding your dick in your hand. But there ARE victims whether you choose to consider them or not.
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DaCheech
I'm gonna google it later when I get time.
Also any porn sold and marketed in the US has to be cataloged and filed under federal rules.
example: they have to ID the participants, photo, video with the ID showing and making statements that they know they are willing actors.
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DaCheech
Anyway, let me tell you some personal info.
I have a wife, that I love........... If I wanted to, I could probably get sex 26 out of 31 days a month.
I do the foreplay, I touch, I savor, and give the 1 hour treatment.
but, after doing this xx days in a row, there's something in my male body that wishes the other would reciprocate by starting the foreplay and touching me.
In those days of "male menopause", I just watch TV, and when she's dead asleep........... I just take care of myself!
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DaCheech
Rob, are you from the ST. Louis area?
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Found Sheep
i don't understand going to fake sex if you can have the real thing?