And PSsacramento, the problem with the comment
"Evolution doesn't answer the question of Why or How it all began, and design doens't answer WHY evolution is.
Instead of sticking to the either/or notion that both sides seem crazy-glued to, perhaps it is time for them to realise that both must be reconciled and not "ignored and hope it goes away"."
This is to assume that theology has any means of answering the questions you posit. It doesn't. After thousands of years of theological thinking and pondering theologians are no closer to understanding why the universe exists or how it came to be than their ancient breathren. Theology's big weakness is that it possesses no method of falsifiability. If six theologians come to different conclusions as to "why" evolution occurs, or different conclusions as to "why" god does the things he does, what method exists to see who is right and who is wrong? Why is John Haught's idea that evolution is just god's drama, any more right or wrong than any other idea about why things evolve? Why is Alan Lurie more right or wrong about whether or not the existence of god can ever be proven? Here is an excerpt from Roger Badham's book introduction to theology
A central question that haunts both Jewish and Christian post-Holocaust theology is that of theodicy. Why, if God acts in history, was the Holocaust permitted to happen? A God who has the power to intervene, but who does not, surely stands indictable of injustice. There are many attempted solutions: The classical Greek model of God is of a Being beyond time, an unrelated Absolute, immutable and static. Immutability and omnipotence remain at the heart of Augustine’s doctrine of God, but he stresses that God is in all parts of creation, and is by no means removed from it. Schubert Ogden claims that God’s “body is the whole universe of nondivine beings”: therefore, all creatures are effected by God and effect God, and experience levels of freedom. Paul van Buren, adopting this process model, argues for the self-limiting character of God through the creation of self-determining agents, after which even power is social—shared between God and humanity in covenant together. God’s power is not absolute, but is relational and persuasive, and can therefore be profoundly frustrated. Because God is relational, God is affected by, and suffers with, creation. Tillich’s Kierkegaardian approach is compatible: If moral freedom is an inseparable trait of being human, for God to restrain evil would be synonymous with taking away our humanness. God has provided us already with every gift possible by which the Holocaust was to be prevented. Tillich moves away from personalist or supernaturalist assertions about God as a superbeing or agent, and speaks instead of God as the ground of Being and as Being itself. God is therefore perceived as the ground of agency rather than as an agent, which profoundly changes one’s theological view of God. Put differently, H. Richard Niebuhr insists that “responsibility affirms—God is acting in all actions upon you. So respond to all actions upon you as to respond to [God's] action.”
All of that is just assertions, and there is no means of demonstrating that any one of those attempts at explaining theodicy is more or less valid than any of the others. How is theology going to answer anything if all it is is a series of assertions that cannot ever be either proven or disproven, and in fact relish in the fact that they cannot be proven or disproven? Science and theology don't need to be reconciled, because only one of them is making any legitimate attempt at learning anything about the universe and our place in it. The other is just stroking it's chin and and guessing what an invisible non descript entity wants and is, and then claiming that it's critics just aren't sophisticated enough to understand it's importance.
And all of it is based on one major assumption. That there has to be a "why". There MUST be a reason that all of this is happening, and no, not some mathematical equation that just points to the universe existing, but one of deeper, poetic, meaning. It's impossible that we are just a brief chemical reaction that even as a species will be gone in the blink of the cosmic eye, organic chemistry being digested by a cold ammoral universe. No, that can't be. We must have some overarching purpose, we just have to. But maybe we don't, and there is no grand "why" to be asked. And if that's the case, then what is theology going to contribute to the world? Why does science need to reconcile itself to it when it hasn't even demonstrated that there is any validity to it's initial premise? Should chemistry also reconcile itself to alchemy since all it does is explain how chemicals work, but does nothing to explain the spiritual natures of the elements?