Oompa,
One of these days, maybe you will take a good hard look at yourself. You still think your problems are all around you; i.e., your wife. Happiness truly is an inside job. You started a thread only a few months ago about how wonderful it was that you found a multi-orgasmic woman to hook up with. Did that give the happiness you are seeking? Couple this with your other excesses, and I assure you that you have not been that easy for your wife to love either. I probably wouldn't want to listen to you either if I were her.
Man, I hope you get your shit together one of these days.
JK