In an earlier thread, I went off topic for a moment to share excerpts from an email I received from an active sister living in the midwest USA. She mentioned that the elders in her congregations were extremely conservative and criticized the flock for using certain colors of highlighters in their magazines. She also reported that they were all over the sisters for wearing stylish boots or tennis shoes during the winter months.
I know that some elder groups can be very liberal, supportive and loving toward their flocks - while others are exactly opposite to the point that they become overbearing and oppressive.
What have you experienced as far as ridiculous, over-the-top rules and ideas enforced by local elders?
Has anyone ever approached a CO or DO to report abusive rules or treatment by elders? If so, what was their response?
JV