Longhairgal, I think the comment "half of us are here to test the other half" wasn't meant to be an excuse for anyone to be assholes, it was a warning to the nice innocent naive newbies that they were going to be disillusioned by the actions of others frequently. I think it was meant to be an encouragement to keep the faith because otherwise, they would all go mental like the guys who were carried bodily out of the dining room never to be seen again.. . . .just my .02.Because the people who test us are not usually trying to(test us, specifically), they are just naturally obnoxoius people. OTOH, who knows what kind of mind games were going on in that nuthouse?
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