Personal new years res: find a husband... any suggestions on how to do this? (page 2)

Broken Promises

Yes, if you are hot and under 33 send me a PM.

Stay away from shallow men

BTW, there are plenty of husbands. It's their wives you have to look out for.

Azazel

Years ago one of my mates was reading the personal ads in the local paper and came across a beauty ad:

Profesional business man seeking woman to 60yo ,must have own teeth! gold folks! gold

Az

punkofnice

Az -

must have own teeth!

Yes. She made them into a necklace!

DaCheech

Never mess with marrieds or those in relationships.

aaaaw, I was gonna ask her to be my 2nd!

wasblind

When lookin' for a mate, you BETTER be picky

not overly critical , because there is no such thing as

perfection, but you don't want to choose someone

out of desperation

Just be your best inside and out , stay away from bars, instead go to

jazz festivals, volunteer at a ball park, go bowling . Go to wholesome

places that draw men folk.

The only time I would advise goin' to a bar is when a big game is on

at a ( sports bar ) but to hang out in one all the time I would not recommend

anyway I wish you all the best in your search :)

My sister met her husband in a grocery store :)

Qcmbr

..also most men are chuffed if you ask them out and make the first move but never do it when they are with their friends as they will be under pressure to blow you out.

Witness My Fury

Apologies all, I think I scared her off sorry. Might have been that picture of my tight ass I sent her, or the one of me sacrificing kittens while dressed as a nun, I'm not entirely sure....

foundlife

I really thank you all for your great ideas and words of wisdom. Im in the same boat as highdose, but the opposite sex.

I attended certain types of churches (and many women did the same) that were progressive and invested in socialization programs. My home church, St. Bart's, had a private club for professionals to meet (and tons of Manhattan marriages resulted) in a lovely community house funded by the Astors. You needed references, a group interview, documents which winnowed the pool. The club had a yacht and sailed frequently to the Caribbean. There were sports groups, groups where you could do a one day charity event (I volunteered to be escorts to orpahnage kids on field trips), arts and music meetings, --all sorts of things. There was a nice gym with an olympic swimming pool. The fear was that men would join just to use the gym so certain rules were imposed. There were more men than women! Awesome men. It was very warm and welcoming.

I believe St. Bart's was the first in the country to establish such a ministry. It may not be on such a grand scale but other churches across the country have resources for singles. It varies by church so you have to hunt and get word of mouth.

Women believed men of better character attended church. It is a gross stereotype but I found some truth in it.

I met a former nun in St. Theresa's order. She was the most ardent Catholic I've ever met, including priests. She told me that she went to a Catholic interent dating site. She wrote a very genernal profile and travelled far to meet men who were only interested in sex. She edited her profile sharply and wrote a much more detailed account of specifically what she wanted. No sex until marriage, all sorts of Catholic clubs and special orders. She had fewer hits but the ones she met were within the realm of the possible.

I borrowed a ten year old Internet dating book from the library. It was so dated -the library should just sell it. It is useless. The publisher has prob. arranged for updates.

It takes a lot of fortunate circumstances. I try to track where men are likely to be. In my dating life, I've endured years without a date. I blamed myself. Circumstances changed. I worked in a different, male dominated industry and had money to join private clubs. Dates became plentiful. Circumstances matter.

poopsiecakes

Hi there sweetie!

Happy new year to you and I hope your resolution works out happily

Personal new years res: find a husband... any suggestions on how to do this?