Greetings, dear trthskr, and peace to you!
I personally do not have any great animosity toward the WTBTS (I didn't lose family, etc.)... except for, say, at least 10 reasons in which they do what they do. Which is:
1. Shun/DF which, although was something Paul initially taught (but later had to change because he almost single-handedly destroyed the Corinthian congregation as a result as well as ruined his relationship with the Apostles, et al.).. was something Christ NEVER taught (to the contrary, he actually sought out one man who was expelled for saying something the scribes, Pharisee, and priests didn't agree with (because, of course, THEY knew better than the man did! -John 9:34, 35)... as well as openly and publicly forgave a woman literally CAUGHT in the act of adultery... rather than accuse, judge, or condemn her - John 8:1-11); and
2. They teach what they do... which is 99% false... on the basis of "holy spirit"... which spirit they do NOT posses; in truth, they don't even possess a single "anointed" among them (they possess people who may have heard the CALL... but have not be CHOSEN... because they are still "touching the unclean thing", cessation of which touching must cease BEFORE ones are taken in as sons and daughters - 2 Corinthians 6:14-18, which has absolutely nothing to do with physical marriage between a man and woman, but SPIRTUAL marriage, between a man/woman... and Christ... and adoption as sons by God!); and
3. They hypocritically condemn others religions when, as YOU state, they really aren't any different (one example is their proclamation in an early tract, as set forth on pp. 69-70 of the Proclaimer's book that, the clergy of christendom are "a bigoted group of men who systematically endeavor to throttle all Bible teaching unless it comes through them!"... while they do exactly the same thing); and
4. While their reverence for "Jehovah" (who does not exist - the name of the Most Holy One of Israel is NOT "Jehovah", but JAH... of Armies - Psalm 68:4, so, okay, their reverence for "God") is commendable... they do so to the UTTER disregard OF holy spirit... and the One who dispenses, Christ. While they "smooch" the "air" all AROUND Christ... they utterly fail to KISS THE SON. Indeed, they would much rather have you kissing THEM... and, if you look closely at your words here... the "evidence" is that you DO kiss them!... than that Son. Indeed, they don't even tell you he's ALIVE (which is what 'resurrection' IS) and SPEAKS (which he does, by means of... wait for it... holy spirit - 1 John 2:26, 27)... because he doesn't speak to THEM. Yet, how can that BE, if they indeed HAVE holy spirit?? To the contrary;
5. They literally DENY that Christ... who is the Holy Spirit (2 Corinthians 3:17, but be sure to check the footnote and Appendix 1D)... speaks... while having NO problem claiming that DEMONS talk! Even live in inanimate objects like books and toys! Yet, how can that BE... if ALL authority... in heaven AND on earth... was given to CHRIST? Demons can do what even he CAN'T?? Is that not... wait for it... blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, dear one? It IS! Indeed, they...
6. Call themselves... the "Truth"! So that when one is asked "How long have you been 'in the Truth'?" the expectation is an answer with regard to how long one has been associated with the WTBTS. Yet... CHRIST... and ONLY Christ... is the Truth (John 14:6). So that the question REALLY asks, "How long... have you been IN UNION... with CHRIST?" But JWs can't, for the most part, answer this question. Why? Because the majority ARE NOT IN UNION WITH CHRIST. How do I know? Because...
7. The organization not only utterly ignores the COMMAND by Christ, regarding that union, but literally teaches AGAINST it. They teach that one can (1) be resurrected and (2) live forever without (3) eating the flesh and drinking the blood of Christ, because (4) they "have life within themselves", when Christ said the EXACT opposite:
“I am the bread of life. Y OUR forefathers ate the manna in the wilderness and yet died. This is the bread that comes down from heaven, so that anyone may eat of it and not die. I am the living bread that came down from heaven; if anyone eats of this bread he will live forever; and, for a fact, the bread that I shall give is my flesh in behalf of the life of the world.” (NOT just in behalf of Jehovah's Witnesses!)
" Therefore the Jews began contending with one another, saying: “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?” Accordingly [Jesus] said to them: “Most truly I say to YOU , Unless YOU eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, YOU have no life in yourselves. He that feeds on my flesh and drinks my blood has everlasting life, and I shall resurrect him at the last day; for my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. 56 He that feeds on my flesh and drinks my blood remains in union with me, and I in union with him. Just as the living Father sent me forth and I live because of the Father, he also that feeds on me, even that one will live because of me. This is the bread that came down from heaven. It is not as when YOUR forefathers ate and yet died. He that feeds on this bread will liveforever.” John 6:48-58
Yet, the WTBTS not only does not TEACH this truth... they teach AGAINST it, saying that only a FEW [among them] should do so. How, I must ask... are those who they tell will be resurrected and live forever... going to DO so... without having eaten the flesh and drank the blood of Christ? I will tell you: they CANNOT. Thus, ALL who left Egypt... Israel AND VAST MIXED CROWD... AT THE MANNA (Numbers 11:4; 1 Corinthians 10:1-4). By TEACHING this, however, they...
8. "Shut UP the kingdom of the heavens before men"... because THEY are not going in, neither do they permit those on their way in to go in - Matthew 23:13). They DO this by usurping the authority given to only ONE beside Christ. That one was Moses, in whose "seat" they have sat themselves... so as to "mediate" between God and man. (Matthew 23:2, 3) However, there is NO other leader, teacher, or MEDIATOR... between God... and ANY man... whether "anointed", "great crowd" what have you... BUT Christ. ALL others... are thieves and plunderers (John 10:1-15). The WTBTS particularly so; and
9. They teach a two-part "hope" (one earthly, one "heavenly") that was NEVER taught or believed by ANY who belonged to God and Christ; indeed, as Paul wrote, there is ONE hope, ONE baptism, ONE Lord, ONE faith (John 10:16; Ephesians 4:4; 2:19-21). There is no heavenly vs. earthly hope. There is an earthly hope for ALL... some as kings and priests in the temple of God, the city of "New Jerusalem"... which such ones must go the spirit realm (heaven) briefly in order have rulership bestowed UPON them... by means of marriage to the Lamb... but then New Jerusalem "comes down OUT of heaven," does she not? And some are subjects of that kingdom; however, that City AND its rulership... is UPON the earth (which is how Gog/Magog can even ENCIRCLE its "camp" so as to try and come against it). The very word that they translate to mean "over"... is correctly translated "UPON", even by their own publications (see inside cover of the WTBTS Greek Interlinear). That is why the "great crowd" are ALSO "standing BEFORE the throne" - because they are in the SAME place... as the 144,000 "from among the sons of Israel." Because they, TOO, are kings and priests, those of that great crowd. They are just not from ISRAEL, but from among the nations. They are the ones that replace unfaithful Israel... as part of the "holy nation." (Revelation 7:14; 5:9, 10)
10. They call the Bible the "Word of God"... and the "Truth that Sets Man Free"... when THE BIBLE says that that Word... and Truth... are Christ. (John 8:32, 36; 14:6; 17:17; Hebrews 13:12; Revelation 19:13)
And I could go on... and on... and on... and on.
Like the rest of us here, dear one... you have been misled. Or are being misled. And some here are very angry about that, given the many years they dedicated to a LIE... on the basis of those perpetuating that lie... claim to do so by means of holy spirit and an "anointing." Which are also lies. Many have lost loved ones... and the lives of loved ones. There is some "righteousness" in the bitterness that accompanies that when you realize that the loss is due to lies. Some of us, however, have either moved on... or were never angry at the PEOPLE... but at the false prophet and GOLDEN CALF that the WTBTS is: something to SEE so as to worship God. However, those who TRULY worship God do so in SPIRIT, by means of Truth. They walk... by FAITH... not by SIGHT... and so don't NEED some self-serving religious institution to guide or lead them. They HAVE a guide... holy spirit... and a leader: Christ, the Holy Spirit. I am such one.
It is entirely upon you, of course, to continue walking after them... following them and their ways. OR... like some others... you could choose to TURN AROUND... and follow the LAMB... wherever HE goes. Your choice. Always.
Again, peace to you... and may you be given ears (Psalm 40:6) to hear, if you truly wish them, when the Spirit and the Bride say to YOU:
"Come! Take 'life's water'... the holy spirit of God, the MOST Holy One of Israel and the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, whose name is JAH... of Armies (JaHVeH)... which water is poured out from the innermost parts of His Son and Christ (John 7:37, 38; Revelation 22:1)... the HOLY One of Israel and Holy Spirit, JAHESHUA, the Chosen One of JAH (MischaJah)... FREE!"
YOUR servant, as I am servant to ALL those of the Household of God, Israel, and those who go with... by means of a TRUE anointing with holy spirit... and a slave of Christ, who bestowed upon his servant girl such anointing,
SA