You need a heart to heart. Perhaps you need to set some boundaries.
It could be that you're not on the same page so to speak about where your relationship is and/or where it's going.
Good luck!
The gal I'm dating frequents match.com - advice?
by UnConfused 40 Replies latest social relationships
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UnConfused
Thank Sic - I think you are exactly right, but don't want to admit it to myself.
There is more on the positive side. She's told me that she's never felt so cared for and protected as she does with me and has never wanted to have a child, but actually asked me if I would consider it with her.
See, confusing messages, but I think the fact she's online looking is the current message.
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Stealth
I had a similar experience. When I noticed, I just told my gal, that if she wanted to continue to look, I was okay with that, but then I should also have the same right and I would want to re-join and look also. In my chase she decided I was the one and we have been married 10 years.
This heart to heart will give her the nudge to either move on or commit and get off the site if she expects the same from you. If she does not have a problem with you re-joining so you can be of the same status as her, then there is your sign.
Good luck!
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Wizard of Oz
Rough but true Mrs. Jones
It's A jungle out there
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UnConfused
Love is not for the weak or the insecure. I'm feeling a bit both right now.
She just called and asked if I'd like to join her and some friends for dinner.
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No Room For George
You need to listen to some misogynist rap to get you in the proper frame of mind for this situation.
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mrsjones5
Oh good lord, dating advice from Miz. Run!
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Sic Semper Tyrannis
You didn't say anything about her asking to have a child with you. That changes things a bit. From your original posting, you sounded like you were only casually dating. If I were you I'd take a mental break from all of this. If you really do love her, give it some more time and see if things do progress. Perhaps she learned to love you over time? See what happens. This is the 21st century. If a woman is into you, you'll know it. It's unmistakable. Good luck with that.