Still, I'm so sorry, but I'm going to have to do this just once on your thread. I apologize in advance.
Christ told us to obey his teachings if we love him, and if we do these things, then he and his father will come and make their home with us.
This is what I chose to do, out of love. I did not put a time limit on the 'then' part of it. I just trusted... had faith... that He would do as He said He would do. That God would lead me where He wanted me to be (not where I wanted to be - though the two could merge, you never know) No matter how long that took. If I was 80 before it happened, then so be it. I just loved Him, and followed as best as I could because of that love. I also did not ask for a sign. (actually I did once, and never received anything in answer to that, and well I should not have, because no signs will be given) Asking for a sign is a sign of lacking faith, not having faith.
Now I cannot answer for anyone here. I can share only what happened with me, and where my head and heart were as it happened... that is all.
Your relationship with him or not, is between you and Him. Not you, me and Him. And if you have done all that he asked, all that he said, if you are ever standing before him, then you can state that... in fact, you would not even have to, because he will know.
Peace,
tammy