Yes, quite so. I have thought long and hard about this too.
Look at it this way: Not only do they discourage us from taking part, they actually get each and every one of us to refuse to partake. Every time we are handed that highly polished silver tray and we dumbly pass it on to the next person we are openly refusing to do exactly what Jesus explicitly commanded his followers to do.
Either they are right to get us to do that or they are extremely insidious and clever at getting us to do the opposite of what is commanded.
I haven't quite made up my mind yet. And what would their motive be?
Exclusivity?
I don't know. Help me out.