by doinmypart 473 Replies latest jw friends
That is because the words you cited were based upon your spin... and not what I said. Since your spin did not apply, then how can words based upon your spin apply?
I have noted that no one has bothered to respond to the fact that many people see this in the same way that I see this... but still I must be biased to see this they way that I see it.
Peace,
Tammy
EP, I don't recall Shelby hounding you from thread to thread to have something that you heard revealed publicly upon the open board either. I stayed out of that one, hon, but you don't really have any grounds to complain, based upon your behavior either.
Peace,
tammy
What spin?
I stayed out of that one, hon, but you don't really have any grounds to complain, based upon your behavior either.
Oh, I reject your spin that I was hounding her. I was 1) interested in the same topics and 2) not addressing her behavior as a liar. I don't consider it hounding to seek relief for lies and libel or for being interested in the same subject.
You went from thread to thread with it, EP. Specifically for that purpose. That is hounding. I've read those threads, I was here at the time. The two of you have always had your own thing going on... and as blunt as she can be, you are the same, and then some. So the pair of you can totally handle one another. In fact, you were friends.
Peace,
tammy
How did i misunderstand or put my own spin on this:
"I asked once. When I thought she had been too harsh. He showed me the truth of the matter... that everything people accuse her of doing... THEY are doing."
YOU, tammy, thought she was a bit harsh, yes? Not my spin, YOUR words. But your lord revealed that it was ok because OTHERS were harsh to her...? Yes? How dont the scriptures, the words of YOUR lord apply here?
Just because I thought she was a bit harsh, doesn't mean that my thoughts were right. Note that I said He showed me the TRUTH of the matter... not the JUSTIFICATION of the matter.
Peace,
tammy
So you are saying that once and only once you thought she was harsh, but even that was a case of others being harsh to her not the other way around...?
How did you mistake others being harsh for shelby being harsh?
How did your lord clarify that you mistook others harshness for shelby being harsh?
Not brain science. I make mistakes all the time. I have tended to hold some to a higher standard than others (most especially myself), and that includes those who are of Christ. Not really fair, because we are all as human as the next person.
I already told you that He showed me what others were doing, that led up to what I thought was harsh.
Not that it takes brain science to understand that I think something that might cause another person any sort of discomfort is harsh. But truth is often harsh. Shelby speaks as to truth. You ask her something, she is going to answer truthfully. You ask me something, and I won't lie, but I tend to refrain from what I think is truth if I think it is going to hurt someone at all. Different body members, different strengths and weaknesses. I personally think that is a good thing.
Peace,
tammy
You went from thread to thread with it, EP. Specifically for that purpose. That is hounding.
That's your spin on it, Tammy, and you are welcome to it, but that doesn't make it correct or a completely accurate rendention of events.
I did notice, quite tellingly, that the first thing you did was ignore the comment on Shelby's horrible nasty behavior and focus on me. No mention of her behavior that started it. That's the point others were trying to make.
Note that I said He showed me the TRUTH of the matter... not the JUSTIFICATION of the matter.
Sorry, the true God showed me the truth and says I am right.
Man, this whole "God told me and therefore I am right" making me right is awesome. Maybe the believers were on to something all along. The trick is just to make sure my God is MORE right, and since he told me specifically he was, he MUST be.
