Are you TRAPPED by your believing mate into a hellish life of "pretend"?

by Terry 37 Replies latest jw friends

  • King Solomon
    King Solomon

    I reminder my child of our recent visit to a wonderful dinosaur exhibit, and how we learned they ate each other, and they lived long before Adam/Eve did. My child said, "Oh yeah, that's right, it couldn't have been Adam & Eve then."

    I was just thinking today about how crippling a worldview that assumes only 6,000 yrs of existence of everything truly is. It's just such a fundamental (no pun intended) handicapping of one's World view, in that it conflicts with every bit of evidence we have, and hence the evidence is automatically dismissed.

    People are attracted to the short-story version of creation and cosmology found in the Bible, since we all have a fundamental need to FEEL like we understand how and why all this came about. The Genesis account is seductively simple, as it provides easy answers (as long as you don't think too deeply), and better yet: it can be read in about what, five minutes? Why spend YEARS learning about palentology, geology, natural sciences, botany, astronomy, anthropology, evolution, chemistry,etc? Instead, people choose the Cliff Notes version, which is horribly flawed, and are happy to leave it at that.

    Fact is, it really doesn't matter for most people: if you're only going to clean offices at night and go door-to-door by day, it's not a limitation that you don't understand Kreb's cycle, photosynthesis, etc. You just don't need it, just like you don't need to understand how an internal combustion engine works in order to drive the car to meeting for service.

    HOWEVER, if you ever hope to do anything better, you are absolutely paralyzed by adopting such a limited World view, and the paralysis only gets more profound with time. None of what man has accomplished (eg Moon shot, etc) would be possible if we left our knowledge stop by concluding that "God Did It..." The anti-intellectual nature of religion is truly saddening, as it requires absolute DEAFNESS to the facts. And the worse part is, the gap is only going to grow wider.

  • Crisis of Conscience
    Crisis of Conscience

    Loved this thread Terry!

    I haven't had any issues with the elders yet, but this is great mental preparation in case something goes down.

    CoC

  • blindnomore
    blindnomore

    NewYork44M,

    My husband and I were in the verge of seperation about 3 months ago over religious difference. Today, he is 98% de-converted and thoroghtly disguested with the Watchtower. It has been 'operation TIOL (take it or leave).'

  • Terry
    Terry

    My husband and I were in the verge of seperation about 3 months ago over religious difference. Today, he is 98% de-converted and thoroghtly disguested with the Watchtower. It has been 'operation TIOL (take it or leave).'

    Fantastic! Really good to hear this.

    The difference between staying and leaving really only comes down to two things.

    Somebody willing to trigger their own courage to be free and a mind willing to face distateful answers fearlessly.

    Keep on keeping on!

  • Terry
    Terry

    Those considering divorce as an option, keep in mind that it is not an easy option, nor is it a cheap option.

    The age old question - "why is a divorce so expense?" The answer is - "because it is worth it!"

    Leaving the organization is like leaving an abusive mate and divorce is the only way to protect yourself.

    It is difficult to see or even imagine the NEW life you'll have when you are on the inside looking out.

    However...

    when you are finally on the outside looking back in you'll wonder what took you so long!!

  • Aware!
    Aware!

    I have to save this one. Terry, well done as always.

  • Terry
    Terry

    I have to save this one. Terry, well done as always.

    Thanks, hope it helps somebody.

  • notjustyet
    notjustyet

    Terry,

    Marking this for later, if need be.

    Also you said

    "What has caused you to question Jehovah's loving arrangement?"

    I think that some of the GB and elders think that the "g" in the last word is supposed to be silent.

    NJY

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