by mindfield 38 Replies latest jw experiences
Will Power makes a good point. If she is of legal age then maybe you won't end up pleasuring Bubba from 3 to 5 years.
But what do you expect from her? I mean a relationship at age 15 or just fun. At 15 a Big Mac is serious. A zit if the end of life as we know it and fries with that Big Mac is a relationship.
Never Squat With Yer Spurs On
MindChild is a serious guy, I think he is looking for a relationship, not just fun. He has that spark and so does she, so I think they should date. Hey, that spark only comes along now and then, and I think he should go for it.
I predict one of two things will happen. They will find out in a few months that it isn't working out, or they will have many happy years together. In either case, it will be a wonderful experience for him, one that he will remember the rest of his life.
LB, I think Mindchild came keep his thing in his pants for 12 months.
All you old duffers are too practical. Don't you have any romance left in your heart?
And for all you accountants out there, there is a three year age difference. How much difference will that make when he is 78 and she is 75?
On another note. Girls are much more mature at 15 than guys are.
I'm not braggin.....its a fact.
anyhoo
Be a gentleman, don't be a bad memroy.
Mind
thats memory, not memroy which sounds like a sore bottom,\ edit still not working? what the heck am I spendin all this money on???
Mind, the travel is nothing if the 2 of you truly can continue developing a good relationship. But, just remember, as mentioned by others:
15 WILL GET YOU 20!!!
So, just be careful if you decide to give it a try.
boozy
Thanks guys...
But actually, she's 14...
And yes, if you're wondering, I can keep my "thing" in my pants. I do have sexual emotions, but I can take care of them juuuust fine. Don't you fret. I'm not looking for release from sexual tension in this relationship, especially not with a 14 year old. I'm looking for someone I can have fun with, tell stuff that I wouldn't tell others, etc. The sex part will come later.
I'll check if there's a bus going from here to sherbrooke... if there is, it'll save me a lot of effort.
Thanks again for the advice.
Hi mind,
Hmmmmmm, well, she's pretty young... Is she JW? Whether she is or not, her parents may not be too keen on an 18 year old boyfriend. They may be OK with an 18 year old friend, so go very slowly.
Long distance relationships aren't easy, but that doesn't mean you can't be someone special in each other's lives.
Hi concerned mama,
Yeah, that's about what I thought as well. We'll have to start slowly, let them know we're only friends (for now) and are testing if this spark is really there. I've never had a girlfriend, so i have all the time. I hope she doesn't mind slow steps, though...
I think this will be one heckuva experience, whether it works or not.
Oh, and I checked about the "legal" age, and yes, it is 14. So theoretically, we could engage in... sexual... contact. But I think I'll wait a little for that.
Well Mindfield, I have been in your shoes. I met this boy at a convention when I was 16 and he 15. He lived about a half hour from me, so it was no big deal. We wrote letters (about 10 years ago before everyone had computers in the home) and talked on the phone often. Well we decided to start dating. My mom was liberal and did not care. Well anyway he moved to florida. We still dated, but it was so hard. he came back for the summer and it was great, but then when he had to go, it was too hard and we had to end it. I am not saying do not try it out, but long distance things are a lot of work when you are teenagers.
And becareful with the sex stuff. You are too intelligent to spend your life in jail.
Good luck....:)
Thanks wonderwoman... I'll be careful, don't worry...
