Yadirf, so your father was a drunk eh? That explayins a lot of your posts. Being raised by an alcoholic makes many people seek out and maintain high control groups because they are looking for a fathere figure. So what was the physical pain he "used" the alcohol to treat, the DT's?
BTW since your tounge is not in your cheek, where should I send that breath mint? After all, those shit sandwiches you've been fed in due season must have left you with some awfull breath.