Latest Date Update: Well I went to my friends church on Sunday, then she invited me over for dinner afterwards. I had a really great time the guy she was talking about was there and he was absolutely yummy. Great personality, sharp dresser,well spoken and intelligent the whole package. Drawback, again he is REALLY religious,I am sure the women at his church are already beating each other up over him and frankly I am sure his interest would wane quickly once he finds out what a little heathen I am LOL.
As for the other situation, he invited me over to see his place on Sunday afternoon (yes I had a busy Sunday) he has a gorgeous victorian home that he has been working on for 14 years. I stayed for about an hour and we had a nice conversation, still catching up on old times. He was a perfect gentleman. I spoke to him last night (he emailed me I called him back). Now I am pretty sure that he gets the not so subtle hint that I am interested, I am going to back off and see if he calls to ask me out. I am pretty assertive but hate to throw myself at him. SYN I am taking your advice (the hard to get part not the naked with beer). So it's wait and see....... The drawback: He just got out of a 5 year relationship (never married no kids) and even though I believe that he was ready to move on, I can still see that he is still trying to adjust. Then again he did post his ad on that singles site so he must think he is ready to date. Well the saga will continue .........