So, Are YOU Better Off Than You Were A Few Years Ago In Your Life?

by minimus 24 Replies latest jw friends

  • DesirousOfChange
    DesirousOfChange

    Is your life better off as a Witness or exjw now than before?

    Ya know, some days it's a toss up.

    The time spent under the influence of the Blue Pill made life easier in some ways. Just plod along and do all the BS and wait for Panda Paradise. No getting old. No dying. No planning or worrying about the future. But that never happened and the reality of waking up to it is a real bitch. Getting old(er). Worried about retirement. Realizing I'm gonna die. You get the pic.

    On the other hand, being released from the "bondage" and "guilt" is a relief. As a JW, one can never be good enough, never do enough. It's always "missed it by THAT MUCH"! Work a little harder. Do a little more. Don't have too much fun. Life is a lot better without worrying about missing a meeting or taking a vacation or slamming down a few tequila shots.

    Is your life better off in the last few years economically?

    The economy had more to do with our recent setback than any influence of the WTS. Although parting ways with a couple important JW clients/partners was crucial and costly. They were THIEFS. They cost us a lot of money. But it would have only been worse if things had continued on as it was. So things are in the condition that they can presently can be rebuilt rather than starting over completely with nothing. Of course they are both still high profile in the JW clergy class and continue unscathed. BASTARDS!

    Doc

  • Found Sheep
    Found Sheep

    YES!

    Well lets see May of 2008 I was jobless, homeless, and didn't have a penny. I lost all my friends and family that I loved. I hated myself, felt shame and guilt. I couldn't sleep or eat and didn't see a light of hope.

    Today I'm at peace with myself and life. I have a good job, a home ( too many anyone want a house in WV?) I'm learning to save money. I feel free and I'm happy. Sure I get upset from time to time when I think about not having my brother in my life. All and all I wouldn't change a thing. When I see JW's now I don't get that anger I used to get, I feel sorry for them. It's so clear NOW how blind and caged they are.

    FS

  • flipper
    flipper

    I am much better off than I was in 2003 and before when I was still a JW. Much more freedom of mind which comes from reading a lot, and having access to information that was forbidden to look into as a Witness. I have a much happier personal life with Mrs. Flipper who was never a JW yet understands what it's all about and has rallied around me and supported me and my adult son in our ex-JW life !

    My business went through a bit of a downturn in 2008 , yet hit an upswing earlier this year - but many others have gone through that, I get my money from different sources so all my eggs aren't in one basket, things will be alright , my wife and I are hanging in there like most people. It's fairly stable, my business.

    So yeah, life is great ! I'm playin' guitar, singin ' , hiking in the mountains searchin' for Sasquatch and helping people think with free minds here on the board ! What more could a person want ? LOL ! Peace out, Mr. Flipper

  • nancy drew
    nancy drew

    Absolutely better in all ways

  • LisaRose
    LisaRose

    Whoosier I totaly understand why you are going back. Do what you have to do. Don't take it personal if some think its a mistake, its not a one size fits all kind of decision.

    My life is better than it was as a JW, much better. Other than some health problems my life is pretty darn good.

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