Is homosexuality wrong?

by forgetmenot 84 Replies latest jw friends

  • patio34
    patio34

    Hi Tallyman,
    Thanks for the response to my post. Of course, you're very sharp. However, you implied a whole lot more to my short answer--actually added much that i did not say nor imply. In a nutshell, my opinion was that it was none of my business what people do in private. I meant the actual sex, not that they couldn't openly state what they are.

    I believe my explanation of the bonobo chimps was clear. The point being that homosexuality exists in nature (in more than one species), so therefore it's probably part of the genetic makeup of humans to be that way also.

    I didn't refer to pedophilia; my comments were directed to consenting adults.

    I have no comments on bestiality (which is off topic anyway) other than it's probably indicative of a very sick mentality. I don't care which law of the land--it's a superfluous point anyway, imo.

    I did notice that you took only about 10 words of my post and elaborated on those to a post much longer than my original.

    Please don't put words in my mouth.

    Enjoy your day.
    Pat

  • zombie
    zombie

    For me, I think its just not natural to be homosexual.

    However, everytime I meet gay couples, not lesbians, I find I really like them. They are so *not* pretentious, they are so fun, so down to earth, not afraid of the way things are. They get excited at little things.

    I have encountered them in sales and they have always been appreciative of just being "accepted" ..... When I have acknowledged or asked "Is that your mate?" They have seemed to really be pleased that I asked. My store sells large motorhomes so its important to establish a good rapport with them. Regular couples don't seem to have as much fun in life as they do!

  • Abaddon
    Abaddon

    Perry, glad to see you here and looking forward to your reply on the other thread about homosexuality, as there are some important points I'd like to see your answers on - whether it is here or there, I don't care. As regards what you say here;

    It may seem that many people who post on this board are of the opinion that any moral judgements are ridiculous. However, our politically correct posters do share with the rest of non-psychopathic mankind an innate sense of right and wrong.
    I agree absolutely. I am so tired of people making assumptions regarding the lack of moral compass of people with more liberal viewpoints, or the assumption some make that atheism gives one a moral carte blanche. It's good to hear you don't swallow rubbish like that.

    Here's the real issue:
    Like all totalitarians, marxists, humanists, and the politically correct want to squash all competition and are really after control, control, control.
    Now, here we have guilt by association. Very weak arguementative techique. Cabbages. Kiwi Fruit. Peanuts. All want to photosynthesise and grow grow grow. Now, there we have undeniable similarity. Does your example have the same degree of similarity?

    Well, NO.

    Totalitarian; of or relating to a political regime based on subordination of the individual to the state and strict control of all aspects of the life and productive capacity of the nation especially by coercive measures (as censorship and terrorism)

    ... is not the same as a ...

    Marxist; one who supports a theory and practice of socialism including the labor theory of value, dialectical materialism, the class struggle, and dictatorship of the proletariat until the establishment of a classless society)

    ... is not the same as a ...

    Humanist; one who supports a philosophy that usually rejects supernaturalism and stresses an individual's dignity and worth and capacity for self-realization through reason)

    ... which is not the same as a totalitarian ...

    They are different things Perry. Please don't do that. I like your posts, except when you get sloppy with definition and meaning to suit your arguement.

    If you are trying to say that "certain groups want to squash all competition and are really after control, control, control", you would be better of saying that and not muddying the water with doubtful linkages.

    I think you grab the word totalitarian because it means "...especially by coercive measures (as censorship and terrorism)", but you ignore it means "of or relating to a political regime based on subordination of the individual to the state and strict control of all aspects of the life", as it doesn't suit your arguement.

    The people you attack cannot be described as totalitarian as they do not believe that society should be a "regime based on subordination of the individual to the state and strict control of all aspects of the life", they believe that society should be based upon the freedom of the individual, freedom from undue restriction by the state, and lack of control of aspects of their lives that do not harm others.

    Whatever. Let's see how your argument continues.

    What the far left on this board does is immediately pounce on anyone who even hints at "right or wrong" because it tends to glide into Good and Evil.
    I disagree. What the 'far left' (have your inaccurate little description if it makes you feel better Perry) does is immediately pounce on anyone who suggests that there is any determination of "right or wrong", other than that determined by things like the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, or the determination of whether or not harm to others occurs, or whether something is non-consensual or some similar provable reason why something is wrong.

    Now, people can say "Blue is wrong coz I think so." People can say "Blue is wrong coz my book says so." These are opinions, and there is no way in the world that being blue should be descriminated against on the basis of those opinions. I am happy for people to say these things, even if I disagree with them, and am happy I have the freedom to disagree. Bad totalitarian marxist humanist oppressor of freedom that I am.

    Now, if people can prove that being blue harms other people, or infringes upon the liberties of others, then maybe laws about being blue will be passed. It would be fair after all, if there's a genuine harm that can result from being blue, if something is done about it.

    But if it is just opinion? Whose opinion? Why is it right? Is it the same the world over?

    Now, if you can't see the difference between opinion of right and wrong and provable assertions of right or wrong based upon harm or other described criteria, well, I'm sorry.

    This implies an outside standard and moral rules that cannot be changed by human authority. This is very unsettling to the self worshiper.
    Ah, so it's now NOT okay to not believe in god, as if you are you are a self-worshipper? Could you PROVE this please. Not the existence of god silly... even you can't do that I mean prove that it's wrong not to believe in god. Hang on. Aren't you doing what you say others are doing all the time?

    They want to measure, quantify and science-ize everything. The secularists don't hate moral judgements because they think it to be foolish. Disney is foolish and it isn't attacked.
    This sentence has grammar that really doesn't work. I'll come back to it if you tell me what it means, but, when you do, why is it wrong to want to "measure, quantify and science-ize everything"?

    To the psuedo-marxist the crime is not morality, because even they have a form of that; the crime of morality isn't crime, it is the ALLEGIANCE it inspires. Since it is based on an exterior Source,
    the marxists and humanists are jealous of the competition....that's all.
    Watchtowerese my dear chap. You mentioned Marxists at the top of the paragraph, and are now waxing lyrical about Marxists, when I'm buggered if I know why you bought them up, other than a hope it might help your continuing arguement (that us bad naughty liberals shouldn't tell poor ickle conservatives when we think they are wrong, we should just stay quiet, and that we mustn't assert that someone saying something based soley on what is written down in a book only has an opinion unless they can back what's in the book with facts).

    I'll give you a clue. It's irrelvant to the arguement, unless some Marxists turn up. Typical. Never a Marxist around when you need one.

    Let's be a little more direct, eh?

    Since it is based on an exterior Source, the marxists and humanists are jealous of the competition...
    Don't you mean;

    "Since it is based soley on the authority of a god that is claimed to exist, but cannot be proved, many people look to a quantifiable determination of right or wrong, as in a court of law, rather than old moral codes that got written down at some point."

    I think that's a fairer representation of facts, don;t you?

    It is difficult to have near total control over a population if they believe in moral absolutes. The leadership just might find themselves judged by such a population. Take away right and wrong, and all you need is a veneer of "science" or "expert" opinion and Whalla, you have Soviet America!
    Ah, of course. How silly of me. It's a conspiracy. Perry, behave! You've proven NONE of that sentence, you're just pulling it up a flagpole to see if anyone will salute.

    We have gone from a soceity where right and wrong was based on a book. Now we base it on harm, essentially speaking, and certain rights that are believed by many to be held by every human.

    Now people are free to say if they think that a 'book based' morality is wrong, or whether they think a 'harm based' morality is wrong, or discuss specifics.

    The problem comes when they disagree, as people with a 'book based' morality frequently present reasons for things being wrong that fail to meet the standards of 'wrong' of those with 'harm based' morality, and the fact something causes no harm is not a good enough reason for many 'book based' people to view an action described as bad in their book as right.

    Get over it. No matter how you dress it up, that's the facts, and I'm sorry if you have trouble dealing with it, but it is the way things is my friend.

  • Tallyman
    Tallyman

    O'Patti:

    Hi Tallyman,
    Thanks for the response to my post.

    You're Velcome, O'Patti

    Of course, you're very sharp.

    I don't know, but some say I "have an axe to grind..."

    However, you implied a whole lot more to my short answer--actually added much that i did not say nor imply.

    Now O'Patti, YOU are sharp enuff to notice that almost everything
    I wrote to you in response, ended in a 'question mark' - that symbol - '?'

    And this whole thread started with a question:
    "what do you think?"... an open invitation to share thoughts,
    and raise even more questions, which is what I tried to do.

    In a nutshell, my opinion was that it was none of my business what people do in private. I meant the actual sex, not that they couldn't openly state what they are.

    When they "openly state" ... "in private" goes out the window,
    and lands in the public square.

    I believe my explanation of the bonobo chimps was clear. The point being that homosexuality exists in nature (in more than one species), so therefore it's probably part of the genetic makeup of humans to be that way also.

    Since, like many here have remarked, humans are animals, too.
    Just a bit more advanced than some of the other animals.
    Was that your point?
    (notice the '?' mark)

    I didn't refer to pedophilia; my comments were directed to consenting adults.

    Yes, I know. I raised that question among Bonobo Chimps.

    Can they commit pedophilia?

    Man Chimp molests Adolescent Chimp?

    Would there be repercussions if the Chimp Group found out that
    one of the lecherous old man chimps was wanging on one of the innocent
    boy chimps, uhhh, "initiating" him, before he was "of age"?

    Would the Molester Pedophile Bonobo Chimp be cast out of the group?

    I have no comments on bestiality (which is off topic anyway) other than it's probably indicative of a very sick mentality.

    Why?
    If you hold that humans are animals... it would just be a Higher Animal
    having sex with a Lower Animal... and giving "consent" between the
    two animals would not be that hard to communicate and interpret.

    Nablus said it was irrelevant, but if humans are animals,
    and have sex with other (lesser?) animals, it is very relevant.

    And if humans are animals, why would having sex with a beast (lower animal)
    reflect a "sick mentality"?

    I don't care which law of the land--it's a superfluous point anyway, imo.

    No, it's not, honeybunch!

    If you're in Singapore and Put your Weenie in the Wong Place...
    they probably will hang you by your Weenie!

    If in the Netherlands, the Dutchies' "Laws" will let you do pretty much
    whatever you wish to do with your weenie. They permit you to put it
    in any orifice you want - a little girl's vagina, a little boy's mouth,
    or anus, or in a rabbit, or in a rabbit hole, or anywhere-
    just stop by the coffee shop and smoke plenty of dope first.

    I did notice that you took only about 10 words of my post and elaborated on those to a post much longer than my original.
    Isn't "elaborating" the whole purpose of this forum?

    Didn't you leave yourself Open to Elaboration?

    Don't I ask a lot of questions???

    Please don't put words in my mouth.

    Didn't you notice all my questions?

    I assure you, I'm not going to put ANYTHING in your mouth,
    even if you give me your consent!

    Enjoy your day.
    Pat

    And you too, O'Patti.

    TT

  • Imbue
    Imbue

    'live and let live' I can’t judge others based on my conscience which is meant for me alone.

    Crazy is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

  • patio34
    patio34

    Tallyman,

    LOL at your response.

    No, it's not, honeybunch!

    I'm at work now, so that's my excuse for not replying to your whole post. Besides, i don't have a further opinion that i want to express.

    Ta-ta!
    Pat

  • joelbear
    joelbear

    Lets see.

    My group is right. Your group is wrong. Your group is so wrong it must be from the devil. I'm so glad I am in my good group and not in your bad group. That makes me good and makes you bad. God loves me and hates you.

    nya nya

  • KJV
    KJV

    Thanks Tallyman for taking up my cause! Equal rights for animal lovers!!! The homosexuals have started a great movement and animal lovers are coming out of the closet in droves just as the homos are doing! There are no morals, there are no laws, and people who screw animals are sensitive caring people. Queers think it is disgusting to have sex with an animal but most animal lovers think it is disgusting for a men to stick his penis in another man's butt. And then there is the shit eaters. They have their rights too! Consenting adults eating each other's shit! What a wonderful world of Human/Animal rights have homosexuals opened up for everybody. The queers have got to accept animal lovers and shit eaters just as much as they want to be accepted. IT'S CALLED TOLERANCE!!!

  • rhett
    rhett

    To the person trying to argue that falling for a coworker when you're married is the same as falling for someone of the same sex,
    No, its not the same. First of all, even though you don't want to fall in love with this coworker, you are. Its a matter of what you do with that love. You can act on it or not but none the less you are in love with them even though you may not want to be. You can't change that. The only thing you can have any control over is if you act on it or not. You can do the right thing and try to supress your feelings even though it won't make them go away or you can lose your current spouse and go for it. The difference between this situation and being gay is that if you go for your coworker you break your promise to your spouse and hurt them which is horrible but if you're gay and act on those feelings with someone you have fallen for then not only do you not hurt someone, you have found love that can you can act upon. You get to live happily ever after without hurting anyone. If this has really happened to you then I think you'd be be understanding of people who are attracted to the same sex.
    Moving on to the horror stories about the scariness of gay life......
    Just about anything that is said about multiple partners or harassing people can be said about straight people. One person was going on about how the vocal idiot gays of their community would call out and try to get men going by to perform sex acts with them. Are you an attractive woman? Have you ever walked past a construction site? If the answer to those questions is yes then I'm guessing that the construction workers probally did the same thing at least once or twice. By the actions of the more vocal idiotic minority and using the same logic it could be said that all men in general treat women the same way. So in this story it happened to your dad. Big deal, go ask your mom how many times the same thing happened to her.
    Going on about the gay bath houses is another thing. True, you don't really see as much of that with straight people but I'm guessing that guys at least wish that something like that could be available. Hey, a place where you could easily get laid at without any strings attached would be quite popular with many men (especially the idiot construction workers mentioned in the last paragraph). For all that how do you think prostitutes make their money? Somehow its not so bad when straight guys do stuff like that but it suddenly becomes something horrible and evil when gays do the exact same thing.
    Also, the thought that gay people are all big pedophiles out to seduce children is rediculous. I've got numerous friends including one who is in a very happily monogomous gay relationship. Out of almost all my friends I probally feel more comfortable having him watch my son than I do with any of my other friends. He and his partner are kind, caring, funny, and are both just great with kids. That's a lot more than I can say about various other people that I know that are both men and women.

    Back down the bullies to the back of the bus
    Its time for them to be scared of us

  • joelbear
    joelbear

    KJV, your right.

    Anything that anyone thinks is disgusting should not be tolerated.

    Doesn't leave much to occupy one's time with though.

    Joel

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