I am beginning to notice what most people on here probably have long ago. Trying to get someone to see the erred teachings only makes it harder for them to accept it. They have to see something for themself and eventually they will ask you... in our 12 years of marriage my wife never ever mentioned anything to me about things that bothered her. When I finally confessed to her how I had been feeling she occasionally would ask me how I felt about this or that.
It takes time for people to come to grips with the fact that much of what they believe is something that is being told to them and not something they came to realize on their own.
For instance she said why does God care what we do in the bedroom?
Why do we have to tell kids not to go to college?
Why do we have to break up families?
Truthfully I will never expect her to care about 607 or 1914 because truthfully many people don't think that deeply. Its the day to day things that people deal with that they are scared will result in thier death.