Most of the people I've chatted with and posted with are not obsessed with the JW's. Some of the people have given many years of their lives to the WTBTS. Quite a few served as pioneers and Bethelites.
As for me, I've lived with the JW influence in my life for near 20 years. I live with that influence affecting my life today and know it will be there tomorrow. I have many people I care deeply about who believe in the WT doctrine completely. I don't and never have, but it does not change the fact that I care about these people.
Would I like for them to be free of the WT? Of course!
Will I talk to them about the wrongs done by their religion and condemn it to them the way they condemn all other forms of religion?
No Way!
But I will use this forum to discuss and talk to other people who know what I'm going through. For some of us, having people to discuss issues with helps us deal with our feelings.
I find this board refreshing most of the time. There are posters here that I look forward to hearing from. There are some posters I avoid reading. Perhaps I'll even shun some posters. The difference is I'm not telling you to shun them also. You live your life and I'll live mine. If I find this board helpful, then I'll be here, if not I'll go look up Nascar.com
My question to you, if you don't like what you see, why not move on to another site? Watchtower.org may be more what your looking for.