If hubby and his friend aren't sleeping together yet, they will be soon.
I've seen it before.
A JW husband emailing his ex-girlfriend after his wife reveals her apostasy
by JimmyPage 30 Replies latest jw friends
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Oubliette
Isn't the wife talking to you, Jimmy, the same as the husband talking to another woman?
I'm just sayin' is all!
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whathappened
Anyone who has ever seen the movie "When Harry Met Sally" knows that men and women can never be friends, "the sex part always gets in the way." That is not true 100% of the time, but close to it, IMHO.
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problemaddict
Actually I was wondering......are you guys just friends too?
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wisdomfrombelow
My advice is to stay out of it. She's a fully grown adult who can make her own decisions and doesn't need anyone on the outside telling her to end her marriage based on the little information you have conveyed. Also, what problemaddict said, consider your relationship with her and why you even have one. Even if 99% of emotional affairs become physical affairs, what about the 1%? People are so quick to judge based on their own experiences. Does being married mean an end to privacy? Think before you give advice...think if you SHOULD give any advice at all.
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wasblind
People are so quick to judge based on their own experiences.____Wisdomfrombelow
You got that right !!!!!
forbidden fruit is delicious !!!!! It's a shame somethin' so good
gotta be so bad
Thing is. A broke neck is to high a price for ol' Wuz to pay
All I got left is a memory and a song that sends chills down my spine
from that moment in time
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HarryMac
Messy, messy, messy.
Dirty, dirty, dirty.
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wasblind
A little dirt can't hurt a growin' flower
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HarryMac
Touche.
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steve2
So if her husband found out she was talking to you, including " her" side of the story - and that you splashed the details - without names, ahem - over an ex-JW forum, he would think what exactly about this icky-sticky scenario? Would he understandably conclude she was trying to get even? Would it help or hinder the likelihood of repairing their marriage? Would it show them a helpful way forward or be perceived as another nail in the coffin. In the long and sorry history of well-meaning but blurred-boundary confiding, you wouldn't be the first listening ear to end up making things worse. Hope you get answers that you find helpful.