Welcome!
It's great to see an elder open his eyes and see the WTS for what it is.
I've heard of a number of elders whose marriages have suffered because of all the attention they are supposed to give to the congregation.
The WTS prides itself on not paying its workers (despite what Paul said in 1 Corinthians 9:14), but that forces elders to hold down full time outside jobs as well as do all their elder duties. That lives little time left over for family.