Lawsuit maybe? (page 2)

KariOtt

I have found out that my hubby has been lying to me and a dear friend of mine. Looks like he's using " lying theocratic warfare " on me and my friend. Makes me wonder what all he has been lying about and who all he has been lying to. I don't plan to confront him until after we get home from visiting his grandkids. I am so hurt right now.

Nathan Natas

You need a better fantasy.

Destroying yourself in an effort to "stick it to the man" will end with you stuck in the ground.

Get a grip and straighten out.

StAnn

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} Please feel better soon.

steve2

Kari, I don't want to treat you like you're fragile because you'll just end up talking yourself into victimhood and illness. Your wimp of a husband sounds like he's choosing his old religion over you and you sound like an extremely unassertive spouse who is kind of looking for an organization to blame. Hold both your husband and yourself accountable for behaving like adults, instead of victims, and stop this nonsensical talk about lawsuits for emotional distress.You alone are responsible for your mental health and what you will and won't tolerate.

Your comments about your wedding vows interested me. Maybe you need to share those views with that husband of yours. The fact that you're wife number 3 indicates he may not share your high regard for wedding vows.

Whatever the outcome, you do sound like a survivor. It would be a shame to have survived the tornadoes but to be undone by the disaster-activated religious panic of the man you married.

sarahsmile

You need more help than what this forum can do.

Is this the first time in your martial life that you had a nervous break down? Or threaten to end your life?

Really, what harm did it cause you that your husband has changed his mind and want to attend meetings?

Did your husband beat you up? Hurt you in any way? Emotionally abused you?

Are you a bi polar?

Because your behaving very unstable.

sarahsmile

Here something you need to know and probably is your fears.

Your husband has the right to divorce you because your not a believer.

He is not bound to unbeliever.

Considering the above perhaps you need to leave him alone and let him worship the way he see fit, or he will use the clause to divorce you.

As far as your law suit it sounds like you want to blame someone for your nervous break down. How about going back on your meds.

Also, the elders would not tell your husband that he could not go out in service because your smoking. As long as you buy your own drugs.

Hell to be honest with you. I would have left you a long time ago. Why would anyone put up with it. Your manipulating your husband and this group but I see through you.

Your unstable and you need to seek help or call 911 and check your self in.

lost

Kari - he had 'vows' also, and and as a jehovist 'christian' they should technically be held more dear and serious,

precisely because he is supposed to be a man of faith.

Take religion out of the equasion, and stand back and view this objectively and honestly, brutally, for the 'truth' of what is going on here.

We are now pre- 2014, 100 yrs comingup, the jehovists are going to get more and more hyped and unhinged as this current year progresses,

a lot of people are also going to wake up and 'see' what is really happening, I believe there is going to be a mass 'exodus'.

This is your life we are talking about here, your health, your future.

Your wife number 3 !!

Ummm, do you not see a pattern here ?

Save yourself, slavage what is left of your life, be true to yourself, you know this is not the way to live, it is not living.

You are not responsible for him. Simple.

Keep us updated. chin up, be strong.

lost

sarahsmile - that was a bit harsh wasn't it.

sounded very callous actually, considering the woman is in a very emtional state at the moment !!!

God forbid should your remarks push her over the edge.

You have no idea what has gone on, you don't even know the woman.

mouthy

Yes I think since we are not face to face. We must be tender with our advice.
We dont know the state of the one we are giving advice too.

Band on the Run

I've had wonderful times in my life but extraordinarily bad ones. Altho it is sometimes very hard to do, I fare best when I disengage and plot my revenge. The motto "Living well is the best revenge" is my mantra. The opposite of love is not hatred. Distinterest is the opposite of love. Where I used to live many people have multiple marriages. Many is the time I had brief conversation with wife number three or number four. I wonder why these amazing people marry someone with no respect for marriage.

Some people marry young before they are adults. Sometimes the nicest people are a bad mix. Growing up in an Italian neighborhood with some Chinese friends, we were so bad - we would not even talk to any kid with divorce parents. Other cultures know love. Their poems and epic literature celebrate romantic love. They are more pragmatic, though. They understand how women and children are vulnerable. Love is not enough. Stability is just as important.

While I don't know all the details, once you get past wife two (studies show that second marriages last even longer than first ones), you must be a realist. You are not Cinderlla. Rather, you are more Ann Boelyn and Catherine Howard. The marriage may be wonderful but the odds are that is temporary. Some women who understand the risk marry anyway. They point out though that they have strong prenups. Every move is calculated to see where they stand on power.

Read about Rupert Murdoch and nis third wife, Wendi. What a great couple- from their closest friends and employees. I recall my shock when Murdoch announced on Charlie Rose's show that his children by Wendi, unlike his children from two marriages, will have not votes in a trust. Neither will they inheirit most of the business money. Columnists ran stories about this rude blow to innocent children. Many expected Wendii to just walk out and sue. People wondered if his past divorce settlements bound him contractually to messing with his younger children. Well, Wendi heard this news for the first time on the Charlie Rose show. She had just forcibly intercepted a pie thrown at Murdoch during Parliamentary hearings about the phone hacking.

You are entitled to the same treatment as first wife.

Lawsuit maybe?

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