Hortenzie...if you came into the JW organization 15 years ago. Why didn't you look this information up? this explains why it's disrespectful...you bought into it.
This is your statement: Ignorance is a choice and in this "Information age" it is not even an excuse, any longer.
But I ultimately think you shouldn't give out anything you don't want in return. If you want people to dismiss your thoughts or your journey with anger...then rip up the literature. But if you want compassion and understanding of your current journey. You can refuse to take the literature and give your reason. Or take the literature and give them a take away (or plant a seed).
Anytime a JW speak with me...I always tell them to look up their religions history. If it's a young person...I tell them when i was 17 years old...I was told not to pursue education because the end was so near...then I let them know, I'm now a Grandmother. To not waste their life for an end times organization.