As an MS in another country I might as well have been an elder at times. Someone asked me if their chicken drowned (it happened), could they sell it to their neighboor like the isrealites. That was pretty odd.
People would be surprised how much oral sex gets brought up between married couples. lack of sexual intimacy is a big problem for alot of people, and it seems to be amplified if you are a straight laced elder. So they guys look at some porn, or they get caught masturbating, and their wives go nuts, even though their wives never even touch the guys. I have seen elders "brought down" because their wives have told the rest of the bdy that they engage in acts that "make her feel like an object". In other words, they had one hot night......and shes angry at him for somethign else.
Pretty nuts.