New development in my life

by EdenOne 99 Replies latest jw friends

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  konceptual99

  Do they know about the site? Can you escape a JC?
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  EdenOne

  No. And maybe.
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  label licker

  Eden One, trust me when I say this but the elders are on here watching. I posted something that only the police and I would know about one of my accusers (which they made him an elder four months after my jc)brother and he was df'd the same week. Now I have posted something else which is about to happen and we will see if they try something on me afterwards. My so called friend whom I thought was a friend went on her husbands facebook and found out what I was on and who I am. He has since put a password on his computer. But if she's not careful I will go to the elders and tell them which couple is having an affair for she told me. I know the elders will probably pooh pooh it off since she has three of her grownup kids in the congregation. She turned into a jeckel when we stopped going.

  When someone thinks they are one step above you since all it took was for you to stop going to the meetings, then they think they are more spiritual than you and have to report you. I don't care anymore. I have one more assignment to do and then I'm done. It could be that someone saw an opening for your label and wanted it. Walk away from them while you still have your dignity and a decent reputation. Trust me, the elders will conjure up anything and stir trouble in the congregation to be rid of you. They will spread false lies and lie to the co. They are wicked because they know the society won't touch thenm.
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  Witness My Fury

  If that's your site, or you are involved in it in any way then you are toasty toast totally toasted.
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  EdenOne

  I kinda like your optimism, WMF
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  problemaddict

  Ah yes. Crap.

  So you sent that to a "friend" and they proceeded to rat you out post haste. I don't know much but see two-three options.

  1) Its yours. You were experimenting with a few things and just putting something on paper. Meant to be harmless, you shared it in confidence with a friend. You really are just "confused", and maybe you shouldn't serve anymore.

  2) Deny it was yours and say you lied about it being yours to try to get your friends opinion about it. (this option requires lying so don't do it if you aren't prepared for it). You can come up with an explanation why.

  3) Own it, test them on it, try not to get DF'd, but be prepared to be.

  Eden the elders from my old congregations leave me alone even though they know more than they should about how I feel directly from me. I made several errors. They really COULD come and get me. But they leave me alone. Why? Its alot of work to deal with me, and I stayed away from the guys that like that kind of work. They were outmatched scripturally when dealing with me and because i knew their intent I knew what to say and not say. When they said, "What do you think about the role of the GB?", I turned to matthew and read where all authority in heaven and on earth had been given to jesus. I just pointed to it, and said, thats what I think, beyond that I'd just be giving my opinion, and I try to avoid doing that."

  These guys talking to me were heavies. They were really looking, but I just handled it a certain way. Plus I was a good guy in the hall and area. i think if they really went there, it would have cast aspersions on their motives. So they leave me alone because its too much work. Maybe that is an avenue to try, if they really give you the business.
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  EdenOne

  No, the article was in paper.

  I see some resemblance in my case with the outcome of yours, ProblemAddict.
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  The Searcher

  EDENONE - YOU HAVE A PM
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  pixel

  Eden,

  Hope you can come out with dignity. I wish you the best.

  The part of the 144.000 vs Other Sheep is a "no no" for JWs. I think, like you, that that's the real meaning of the Other Sheepp, but JW's dont care. They only care what Mama says.
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  Phizzy

  Thanks for posting Eden, and I wish you well.

  For all wishing to fade this is a salutary lesson, I made the same mistake eden, and got the 2 Elder visit.

  If you wish to fade without repercusions, then you must have the mind-set of someone living in North Korea, it does not matter if they are friends or even family, chances are they will report you to the Thought Police and then you are toast, if you so much as fart something that sounds "apostate".