Hama happy to hear your son is well adjusted and that your wife obviously has some serious concerns also. Do let us know when anything else happens.
New development in my life
by EdenOne 99 Replies latest jw friends
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Hairtrigger
Please remember that every JWis a part of a herd. Any deviance from their twisted eschatology's beaten path is a red signal that Satan and his demons are at work through the deviant. And needs must be reported to the elders. 99.8 % of the will rat you out. I speak from personal experience. If you aim to fade, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. Trust no one in the herd. It's not that they are untrustworthy but fear no matter how irrational-which is the key to control among all cults- is what propels them to run to mama. As for the .02 % -unless you sre 500% repeat 500% sure they can be trusted do not even smile a greeting by mistake. Just to drive home the point -if you say to yourself " I'm 100% sure he is a genuine friend and I can trust him" you are in a very dangerous zone. The test is not" beyond resonable doubt" but Beyond even a SHADOW of doubt
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Hairtrigger
Eden Sorry I posted the first one immediately after reading your first post. So my advice is too little too late. Here is the the question- Are you in a position right now to tell them to piss up their backs?
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OnTheWayOut
EdenOne, thanks for your updates. Good luck to you. And remember that your son is out for his own reasons, but that alone is worth your troubles with them.
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Hairtrigger
Never mind I just realized your post is dated 4 months ago and the last one a month ago. Any wonder I was a JW?
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EdenOne
LOL @ Hairtrigger
Shootin' from the hip much?
Eden
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EdenOne
Watch this space ... developments have been under way ....
Eden
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EdenOne
Happy news ... my beloved wife is OUT of the cult !!!
weeeeeeee!!!!!
More details coming soon, when it's safe.
In the meantime, my sincere thank yous for Barbara Anderson and Paul Grundy - you have been intrumental in this surprising turn of events.
Eden
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KateWild
It's certainly the best way to leave with your family in tact. I am very happy for you.
Kate xx