Meeting others????

DATA-DOG

Are you like me, afraid of meeting up with faders and ex-jws?? I am afraid to be ratted out. The only person that I have ever personally spoke to is Raypublisher, well on the phone ans skype. So I have some free time coming up soon and I thought of going out. My family will be gone, and I can do what I want. This includes, no service, no meetings, watching R-rated movies, ect..

Anyway, without any faders or ex-jws, I will be forced to go out alone. I don't know anyone. I don't have any real-world friends. All my friends are on JWN and other sites, some are in other countries. I am thinking of just going to a gay bar and meeting some real worldly people and hanging out. Why a gay bar? I don't know? I hung out with a mixed crowd at a starbucks once and one guy was gay. He wasn't creepy or anything. the whole thing just interests me i guess.. Maybe that's rebellion talking???

I am hesitant to meet anyone because I am fading. i don't want to DA or get DF'd. I feel like I need someone to vouch for the reputation of anyone I may meet. I know that sounds hypocritical. I mean, I could be a mole for the WTBTS..LOL!!! I guess someone might be afraid to meet me too.. I have to do something REAL, soon. I don't know how much more I can take. I don't want to paint the town red, just hang out with a human being that can have a REAL conversation about anything from the GB to midget porn. Am I making sense???

DD

cantleave

I remember my first meet with someone on here, we met in a country pub. Since then I have made many friends and met Ex-JW's across the world.

Once you have you have met your first mentally diseased apostate you can relax and start living

DATA-DOG

I have DF'd family member that i could visit. I am hesitant to do that because of the children. I hate to waltz into their lives and cause confusion for them...Damn cult...

problemaddict

What part of the world are you in.....and have you been drinking? :)

EdenOne

DD, I share your feelings exactly

Eden

DATA-DOG

@ Problemaddict: Midwestern USA, and Yes... LOL!!

EdenOne, thanks bro. I enjoy your blog...except for "JEHOVAH." I just hate the dogma that surrounds it, then that dogma is used as a label. You know? You try to speak TTATT and you are told that you hate GOD's "name." It drives me bonkers... I believe I understand you reasoning in using it on your blog. Peace..

EdenOne

I could just as well use Yahweh ... wouldn't be a problem with it. it's not a dogma to me.

Eden

LisaRose

Why don't you consider meeting people that have never been JWs? That gives you a lot more potential friends and no worries about being rattled out. Then you would have some friends when you leave the Borg. As far as I know they don't disfellowship you for having "worldly" friends.

DATA-DOG

No offense meant, EdenOne. I just hate it when dubs say "Jehovah" a jillion times like they know what God's name is. I guess I don't like the way dubs use it to judge others. So and so does not say, "Jehovah!!" We dubs are the best, yay us!!!

DD

nonjwspouse

I wish I could meet up with a certian former elder on here that lives nearby. Oh how much I would like to hear his views, his story, his support, his ideas. Just having a face to the name. But he is too invested right now to be able to do so. Too bad, but I understand. I wish there was a live support group here. If I need it so much, I can't imagine how much the actual fading or ex JWs need it!!

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