Fortunately, I never got summoned to a JC. I DA'd via a written letter stating that I wanted absolutely no contact from anyone within the congregation whatsoever (pretty much a form letter circulating around the net).
So what did they do? Talked to my husband at the meetings a few times, while they sat on my DA letter for THREE WEEKS! On the tuesday before they announced it, they approached him and asked if he could meet with a few of them at the KH the next Saturday. He told me when he arrived home, and I started asking pointed questions: Is it 3 of them? Is it at the KH with just you and them? Yes and yes. Told him it was a JC!
Holy hell. I DA, they cannot approach me, so they go after my spouse. What utter nonsense! Oh, and at the very beginning of his meeting with them? "This isn't about you, _name_." Like hell it wasn't.
What a claptrap, BS, full-on nincompoop-infested, shitty excuse for a religion this is!