I give up... (page 4)

Mimilly

MM... honey, you are NOT whining or on the pity pot (a sympathy sneeze I call it). You are venting. Do not minimize your pain by saying that things could be worse. (since murphy's law is my zodiac sign, personally, I'm terrified of saying that things could be worse). But honey, you ARE one very strong lady. There was a time in my life when if it wasn't for my two treasures, I would've given in. You have the fighting spirit. You get knocked down, stay down for a bit, and then get right back up. THAT is going to get you through anything. I'm so happy that you have your treasure, Emily.

Vent away sweetheart. You have every right to, and as I found out in the immediate past, the wonderful people on this board will never let you be alone. Include me in that list.

While your sh$t list IS long - the positive things you list will hold more power.

I wish I was closer, but my email is open.

be kind to yourself hon,
Mimilly

Double Edge

Your list sounds like my life 2 years ago (except for the "ex" part)... the stress was even making my hair fall out (YIKES). At the time it seemed endless and I was always waiting for another shoe to drop. I have nothing profound to add, only that looking back at that "valley" in my life, eventually life's train took me uphill and things got better.... I find that I can now handle life's little 'surprises' better. There's an old saying, which I know you've heard, but one that I always remember "How do you eat an elephant? One piece at a time" Don't look at everything on your plate ... just take a piece at a time and handle that. Break everything down into the smallest pieces to be coped with...then go on to the next.

As far as your parents health, I'm really sorry. I've lost one of my parents, and the other's not too healthy. That's a toughy...hopefully you have a close friend or friends for support (or even this board....there are a bunch of great 'pals' here). My thoughts and prayers are with you (truly).

Prisca

((((((((((((moe and emmie)))))))))))))))

sending you hugs and love - sorry that you've had such a rotten year

MrMoe

Thanks again for the soothing words of encouragement. Hgus to you all for everything.

Kisses,
Moe

P.S. - Can't do counseling, no time. I just started a part-time job and don't have enough time for Emmie anymore as it is... Anyhow, don't need it, in my opinion. I will get through, things have been worse.

safe4kids

((((((Amanda))))),

Glad to see that you're feeling a bit better. I don't think that honestly expressing your feelings is whining. Why is it that it's okay to express when we're happy, excited, horny, goofy, etc...but it's SOOOOO *wrong* and weak to express other emotions?? I don't get that. Oh well, such is life I spose.

Give Emily a hug from me and have her give you one back, k?

Dana

TR

Moe,

please remember that we are here for you! (DuH! Thats why you're posting)

I wish we could visit. Any X's in Florida that can visit Moe?

TR

UADNA-WA
Unseen Apostate Directorate of North America- Washington Division

Yadira Angelini

Amanda, daughter,

I'm glad and very happy for you...

How many e-mails you said you got? That's how many friends you have that care for you and your daughter.

Blessings and prayers go from me to you.

Yadira

Gopher

Amanda,

((hugs)) to you, friend. Every successful and happy person has hit a low point in life where things were so tough it looked hard to make it. I didn't make that up -- I got that out of reading biographies.

If you come through all this, you will be poised to gratefully accept some of the better things that will come to you in the future! Better things will come -- the law of averages almost demands it in your case!

Just be ready to accept the good things when they come, for come they will. Not to minimize the problems of your past "year from hell". My year from hell was 2000, I'm feeling much better now (but the process was in small positive steps).

You're a good person with a lot to contribute, I have enjoyed the kind and gentle spirit of your posts on this board -- they do make a difference!

Take care of you and especially Emmie. Daughters are precious. I know.

-J.R.

Don't let yesterday use up too much of today.--Will Rogers, 1879-1935

LDH

Rekless, that was thoughtful AND funny.

(((((((Amanda))))))))

Here is my unasked for, possibly not helpful advice.

1. Take one day at a time

2. Make a list of things that need resolution.

3. Prioritize your list

4. Make a list of your friends

5. PURGE the fairweather friends FAST.

6. Ask the good friends for their support with the things on your list

7. Kiss Emily often.

8. Let me know if I can help.

Love,
Lisa

MrMoe

TR - Yes, there are some ex-dubs that live very close by, although between my second job and mom in the hospital - and the little known fact that I am a bit of a hermit, I don't get out much.

Hugs again to all of you for making my day that much brighter.

moe

edited to say I am never too proud to take advice - and what good adive u give L...

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