Almond, why are you allowing some widow washers to control your life?
Those fools have not been educated to deal with situations such as the one you are in.
Just leave them alone and live your life in happiness.
BTW, the Jehovah's Witnesses are so far away from the truth they wouldn't recognize it even if Jesus appeared in every kingdom hall and taught them truth.
They would disfellowship Him... Oh, they already have disfellowshipped Him in favor of their Governing Body.