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JWs despise any from among their ranks who question and/or oppose their teachings and way of doing things even when they themselves are allowed to oppose such whenever they feel like changing? JWs can oppose and expose everybody else, but they can't be opposed and challenged?
There is no absolute truth with JWs. It's just whatever they choose to guess at today is the truth. What if I had opposed the generation teaching in 1994 and said that it was two different groups of anointed whose lives would overlap? I would have been disfellowshipped for apostasy. I would have been disfellowshipped for teaching something that is now "truth" for JWs. JWs are right just because they say so. Anybody who once believed but starts to question or disagree is an evil 'despised' apostate. So who was the apostate who first doubted the pre-1995 generation teaching? It had to start with somebody. Who was the first to suggest the teaching was wrong? Is he disfellowshipped?
So JWs have the right to "despise" those from among them who question and/or disagree with current teachings, yet they claim that apostates are the evil ones who do the despising. Do you "despise" the one who first challenged the pre-1995 generation teaching?
I was a sincere JW. I gave the prime of my life in extreme sacrifice and really thought I was doing right. The whole time I had unanswered questions and some things didn't seem right. I was told to wait on Jehovah. I did. But the more I waited, the more my questions grew and the more things didn't seem right. You despise me because I seek truth? You love the mindless, clueless, ignorant, self-righteous, deluded, smug, JW drones who never question and reason and use their minds? You love them, but you despise me? I believe you are the one who has apostatized.
And it does have to do with fear. JWs are scared shitless of any who have knowledge. They are terrified of calling on householders who have knowledge of the Bible, knowledge of JW history, etc. They run with their tails tucked between their legs. The JW higher-ups are scared. Why do you think they won't appear on TV & radio shows? Why won't they have public debates like the old-timers would? They're scared; they know they wouldn't stand a chance.