"Magnum in my opinion apostates are ex-jw's that actively turn against their former faith. ex-jw's that just fade away and build up a life without anti-witness activism are not 'despised' by me."
That's loaded language BS, Emeth. The problem is that the WT Leaders say "apostates" are ones who disagree with THEM, not the Bible. I have zero doubt that I would have been df'd 2 years ago if I had told the "truth", namely:
1) There is no FDS "class" per WT doctrine
2) There is no possible way the anyone has been appointed over Christ's "belongings." [ Can you imagine the audacity of saying that?!?!]
3) All Christians are "domestics."
So, I no longer had faith in any of the above points. According to your "reasoning", to be "despised", I just needed to openly express my views. If I remained silent and faded " without anti-witness activism" [ LOL!!! whatever that could possibly be!] you would not despise me. What an incredibly convenient reality you have made for yourself! As long as I STFU, I have your approval. If I speak an actual "truth" that does not harmonize with current JW dogma, then I am despised. Wow! What an great world view!
Before you discount any of the above, remember, many were df'd becuase they said that no one had been appointed over Christ's belongings yet. These ones were accused of apostasy, convicted and DF'd. They were deceiving themselves. LOL!! The real problem was that the human leaders of the WTBTS hierarchy were shelving that nu-light for later. The OD book taught that the #1 reason to trust the SLAVE [human leaders] was because they HAD been appointed over Christ's belongings! There was no way the GB were letting that "cherished error" be exposed before the due time!
Also I apologize for saying that you are an idiot. That implies that you lack mental intelligence. You are obviously intelligent, but you are ignorant. That ignorance, whether willful or not, has made you bigoted.
DD