Hello jnj ... A lot of good hearted people have responded to you.
Do you understand that your freedom of thought, expression, clothing style, music, movies, associating with "worldly" people, family members, is in danger of disappearing?
You are not even allowed to buy Girl Scout cookies. Did you know that?
Jw's look down on anyone who goes to University, I kid you not! Did you know that?
What is it these JW's are holding out for you as a carrot???
New "friends" that will drive you for "free" 3 hours to visit your very ill step-father?
I know normal people that would do that, and I do not have to "join' their religion.
Jw's count "time" on you (think Brownie points). They counted all the time driving you in the car, at the hospital, and every minute they spend with you. You represent a gold mine of "time" for them.
Did you really think you had made instant "friends"??? Well, did you?
In JWLand having a "Bible" (Watch Tower publications, only) study gives JW's status in the Kingdom Hall. It gives them status at their Circuit Assemblys and also at their District Convention. It gives your study conductor bragging points.
You are cha - ching , hours of time, they are counting on you.
You are "studying" Watch Tower publications twice a week???
Cha-ching, cha-ching. Oh, you are a gold mine of time, they can easily count on you. Did you know that?
Cha-ching, cha-ching. Maybe we can take her shopping??? Cha-ching, cha-ching.
You sound like a dear, earnest, sweetheart, caring human being.
My advice, my 2 cents worth is , run as fast as you can. Hold all your family members close to you and let them know how much you love them and do not let anything or anybody get in the way of that.
LoisLane
PS Please keep in touch with us here on JWN and let us know how your Life is going for you.
Take care and I hope your step-father is better soon.