Oh Pleaseeeeee do, what ConfusedAndAlone says.
Tell Elder's at the Kingdom Hall you met your JW friends at the Y.... Young Mens Christian Association or YWCA... Young Women Christian Association.
Jehovah's Witnesses are not allowed to go there. Can't swim there. Can't work out there. Can't have a job there.
It is kind of like if you met these people at Bingo, or at a Casino, or the Horse Races, or at a Strip Club or you were all smoking cigarettes hanging out together, or wife-swapping, or at your children's Christmas play at school, or at anyone's Birthday party, or at a Halloween party, or Valentine's party, or at an Office Xmas party, or were neighbor's sharing a box of Fireworks for your children's enjoyment on the 4th of July. ALL of these are forbidden and considered disfellowshipping offenses.
JW literature says these are ALL not allowed.
Do you think going to the "Y" is sinful??? It is viewed that way. In Watch Tower language by going there you are "touching" the unclean thing. Bad, very bad, worldly association. Also known as "interfaith". Being around "worldly" people aka normal people are bad, in JW.org's narrow view.
If the people who study with you ever went to the "Y" once, in any regular congregation, worldwide, they would be viewed as bad association, if not outright disfellowshipped . . The area or congregation that you are now associating with could be a renegade one where many underhanded things, might be taking place.
This is not good for you jnj . These people are not who you think they are.
LoisLane