"It does not mean that there is consistancy between how Rose was dealt with and how others are dealt with in JC situations."
Perhaps because these types of situtations are rarely cookie cutter, and this case in particular was very odd.
I can certainly see why serious questions might be raised by the elders. Please allow me to play Devil's Advocate and speak from the perspective of the Defense for a moment.
1) Rose never admitted guilt at any point. He maintained his innocence from the beginning to the end.
2) Jane Doe 0 had already made apparently false accusations against Rose in the past, so her involvement in this new case and her behind the scenes coordination with the other women should be a giant red flag.
3) Rose's behavior around the family of Jane Doe 1 is not consistent with someone who knows that they have abused the family's daughter. Jane Doe 1 was 20-21 years old (a full grown adult) when Rose went to her father seeking a character reference (according to Cedars), and also according to Cedars, she had at that point already gone and given the police a written statement of her alleged past abuse. So if Rose really was guilty of abusing Jane Doe 1, why exactly would he go to her father of all people when he knows that his now adult victim would be right there and that she may have told her father about the abuse at any time? It reeks of irrationality and absurdity. Unless of course, Rose himself didn’t think he was talking to a victim’s father at all. Rose himself might not have known anything about Jane Doe 1’s allegations of abuse until Jane Doe 1 told him during court proceedings. Rose might have assumed that this man he was seeking a reference from was just another friend and that there was nothing special or significant about his daughter at all. His actions make sense as an innocent man, but they make no sense at all as a guilty man.
4) Jane Doe 2 was apparently quite the wild child even before she brought accusations against Rose. The rumors include drinking, drugs and pre-marital sex. The sources also mention Rose himself, when he was still an elder and some time before the sexual assault allegations, sitting on a Judicial Committee to investigage Jane Doe 2's behavior. This would provide interesting motivation for revenge if Jane Doe 2 decided to hold a grudge from those meetings. Remember too that she was the one who made the first written statements to police and started the ball rolling.
"the rules only allow for a face to face with a single witness."
I think that you are making an unjustified leap of logic. The Shepherd book recommends a meeting because an accuser and the accused if the accused denies the allegations made against him, but it does not expressly forbid meetings between more than two people.
" There were three."
There were two, because Jane Doe 0's testimony should not have carried any weight at that point.